Starry night on the prairie

It has been a two trip to town day. I went in this morning after Kathy’s doctor’s office returned her call and told her they called in her Paxlovid. While I was in town this trip, I stopped and got chicken feed and washed my car.

I got pellets instead of crumbles for the girls. Hope they will eat the pellets. It was my mistake. I realized when the guy loaded them into the car – they looked wrong. I will try a bag and see what happens. I might have to take them back and exchange them if the girls are picky.

Sent a few texts and made a few phone calls. No one has called me back though. I get frustrated when that happens. Customer service sure isn’t what it used to be. It seems rare to find a company that will communicate promptly these days.

Went back to town this afternoon for my exercise class. We are doing a stretching class this week. I used a towel for most of the exercises today. I’m still struggling to think what I am doing is doing any good. They feel too easy for me. There are a series of 16 different types of exercise and we rotate through them doing one type each week. When we get to the end of the 16 we rinse and repeat. Maybe when I go through them the second time I will discover they are working?

Pickup up my Walmart order when I was done with class. They were out of cottage cheese and yogurt again. I forgot that most every Monday I can’t get the yogurt I like as they are out of it. It must come in on Tuesday because they usually always have it on Wednesday. Came home and got everything put away. I didn’t need many groceries this week so that didn’t take long.

Kathy is doing a bit better today. She ran a pretty high temperature last night but said it had broken this morning. Hoping the Paxlovid will help her turn the corner and she will start feeling much better by tomorrow. Her cough will probably hang around for a bit though. She had to take this week off from work. She is hoping she will be able to go back to work next week but we shall see.

Tomorrow I get to stay home all day as far as I know now. I will do my 15 minutes of exercise and hope to get down to the barn to sort and clean. I ordered some wrapping paper to wrap dishes in today. When that comes in I can start downsizing the kitchen and start the give away process.

I took a Covid test this morning just to be safe. I still have a touch of a sore throat but it doesn’t feel like a Covid sore throat. This feels more like sinus stuff. I talked to the tax coordinator to see what the protocol is for me doing taxes Wednesday since Kathy is sick. She told me to test Wednesday morning before I come in and to wear a mask. I can do that. I took a mask to exercise today but the trainer said she was OK if I didn’t wear it. I sure don’t want to give Covid to someone.

Trying to figure out the best way to get rid of the items that I no longer will want/need. I don’t want to have a garage sell but some of the items are more valuable and I would love to recoup some funds. For example, I have a heavy and tall extension ladder that is in like-new condition that I will not be taking. It is too heavy for me to use. Several contractors that have done work for me found it useful and used it. I would love to sell it but not sure the best way to do that. I have had limited success using the buy, sell or trade sites on Facebook. People are interested but seem not to show up or hound me with unlimited questions and then don’t do anything or respond to my answers. Suggestions anyone?

Jason grilled steaks for our dinner last night. We only ate two and I had thawed four so we will have the other two tonight/. I like steak but it isn’t my favorite meal. I asked Jason if he could manage to eat steak twice in row and he said he thought he could manage that! Tough situation to be in – right?

I realized today that the next two to three months will feel like the in-between stage for me. This used to be very uncomfortable for me but it is easier for me now. I feel a bit like I am caught between worlds. It can create a sense of urgency to do something – although I am never quite sure what it is that I am to be doing. I will need to remind myself occasionally that I am in the in-between stage and there is nothing that needs to be done urgently. Time will do its thing and moving day will arrive soon. I will enjoy every sunrise, sunset, moon rise and moon set between now and then. I feel like I have a fresh set of eyes looking out these days as I know the time I have with this view is limited.

I heard of another friend that made her transition this weekend. She was younger than I was. Dang! Gone much too soon and much too young. Life sure isn’t guaranteed to any of us. A good reminder to live big – in all ways and at all times.

Grateful for Paxlovid and trusting that it will help Kathy have a smooth recovery, grateful for exercise class that gets me up and moving, and grateful to have to eat steak two nights in a row. I am blessed and privileged.

It has warmed up to the upper 40’s so far today. Warmer than forecast predicted. I’m grateful! It almost feels like a spring day on the prairie.

Kathy has Covid. This is the first time she has had it. I heard her coughing all night. She had gone to bed before 4:00 yesterday afternoon. So far it appears to be a mild case but we shall see what happens. If she has to come upstairs, she wears a mask. Grateful for this big house so we can stay apart.

I woke up with a bit of a sore throat but it hasn’t gotten worse or better all day. Crossing my fingers I don’t get Covid for the 3rd time. When I had it last time Kathy didn’t get it so here is to hoping we can repeat that pattern.

I made a batch of chicken noodle soup and put it in the crock pot and took it downstairs. Grandma’s chicken noodle soup can be healing – right? She was able to eat a bit of it earlier. I’ll let it stay downstairs all day and she can eat on it when she feels like eating.

Last night I laid out some steaks for dinner tonight. Jason said he would grill them for us. I laid out four thinking Kathy would join us for dinner. Don’t know if she will feel like eating steak or not later. When I am sick I have the hardest time eating but I don’t remember what Kathy does. She rarely gets sick.

Haven’t gotten much else done today. I will go down and take care of chicken chores in a bit. I’m grateful I won’t have to put on my winter gear for the walk down and back. The rest of the week is to be even warmer.

Got the bill for the damper replacement. Ouch! I will be grateful to be out from under this house and the seemingly never ending things to fix or replace. Jason and I were going to run some pressurized water through the line downstairs today but since Kathy has Covid decided not to spend time downstairs today. We will do in next weekend. It is to be warmer next week anyways and will be a better day to do it.

Don’t have a busy week ahead. I will go to town for exercise Monday, Wednesday and Friday and I have two tax shifts on Wednesday. Other than those trips, I don’t have anything on my calendar. I might be able to get started cleaning out the barn and bagging up trash. I have lots to throw away down there. I will also start a big giveaway or donate pile.

I won’t know for another couple of weeks if we are going to close sometime in mid May or wait until June 1. I have lots of time, either way, to get things organized and downsized. One day next week when I am in town I will stop and get another car load of boxes from McDonald’s so I won’t run out of boxes. I love using fry boxes to move. They are the perfect size for most things and I can handle them full easily. Best part is they are free. I also need to get some paper to wrap glass things in.

I am going to be working to reduce the amount of stuff I have in my freezers and grocery supplies on hand. The house we are moving to doesn’t have a pantry and I won’t be able to keep as much on hand. I will attempt to use what I have on hand and not buy much new. I only want to take one freezer so will work hard to get one empty. I may fix some weird meals around here for the next couple of months to accomplish that. I can deal with that!

The EFIS guy is to stop by one day this week and look at the project. Hope he doesn’t come on Wednesday as I will be gone most of that day. It will ease my fears to see his face here and know that he will do the job. EFIS repair guys are hard to find and I don’t know what I will do if he flakes out on me. The first guy I found I have never heard from again and his phone is full and won’t accept messages. Guess after June 1 it won’t be my problem!

It is starting to sink in that I will be moving soon. I almost wish we could move April 1 but I have a renter under contract and I can’t do that to her. Jason’s place will be ready May 1 so we can’t leave until then at the earliest. It feels like a long time away but life goes on and time moves by quickly.

My goal for this week is to push my plumbers into doing something about the booster pump. I let them know it was leaking again over two months ago and they haven’t been able to get the supplier to do anything about it. Thinking we need to find a different brand of pump and just be done with this brand. They are not good pumps as they only work for about four months before they start leaking. I’m tired of having water on the furnace room floor.

I’m hoping my mower comes home this week. I have two different people interested in buying it but I need some information off the mower to give the interested parties. I sure would like to know that I have that sold soon. I will keep it until we get closer to close as I will have to use it a couple times this spring to mow. I won’t start looking for a smaller one until closer to moving time as I will want it delivered to the new address.

Wonder what the lead time is on getting a storage shed delivered? When I am in town this week I will stop and look at some and find out. Timing is everything – right?

Still being able to stay above the neutral level. There is a lot going on but I have been able to find some quiet times in the midst of the chaos to refill myself. I keep going back to that day in January when I realized in a big way that the Universe has my back and things will work out in my best and highest interest. I truly am feeling and believing that. All is well, in all ways, all is well!

Grateful for a beautiful spring day, grateful Kathy’s case of Covid is mild so far, and grateful for an empty space day.

Lazy, cold day on the prairie. We are only going to reach the low 30’s today. Burrrrr……. Grateful spring temperatures will be here next week.

I haven’t done a darn thing today. Decided to take a rest day and allow myself to do nothing today unless something pulls me in to take care of it. I did clean out the ovens and made some new files for my desk organizer. Both of those little projects had been bugging me and I happened to think about them and got them taken care of. Other than that, I have been sitting in my corner chair today.

I started thinking about what I want to take and what I want to get rid of. I get a bit overwhelmed and can’t do much. I did start a list on my iPad so I can stay organized about it. I’m afraid I will promise the same thing to two different people. Do come see me soon and see if there is anything I have that you want. Lots of kitchen items, some furniture, and lots of miscellaneous things.

Hoping next week I can get down to the barn and start going through that. Lots to throw away in there. I can at least get it bagged up and take it to the curb two bags at a time each week. I won’t have much storage space for a bit so will get rid of most of it. I have a couple of like new live animal traps that I would love to find another home for. Who knows what else I will find down there.

I am tired today. I still may go take a nap. I didn’t sleep very well last night. I kept waking up and thinking it was time to get up. Finally gave up around 7:00 and got up. It is going to take me some more time to let all the emotion that I am holding release so I can calm down and relax completely. I keep reminding myself all is well, right here, right now, all is well. Bumps in the road will certainly happen but I don’t need to worry about them until they are here.

I will have to put on my winter overalls to do the chickens today. I don’t like getting cold these days and won’t enjoy doing chores today. At least the sun is shining and the wind has calmed down a bit.

I was looking through my kitchen cabinets to mentally make a note of what I need to get rid of. Found a 12 egg incubator. I won’t be taking that with me. Anyone want to hatch some baby chicks? I used it once and hatched two chicks with it.

I have a quiet week ahead. I will go to town three times for exercise and twice to do taxes. Other than that, I have a rare week where I have nothing else on my calendar. I need a quiet week to give me lots of time to process the sale of my house and mentally prepare myself for the big moves. I am starting to make lists of things that will need to be done. It may be a long three and half months before the move though. It is way too soon to do too much sorting and packing yet. One time I moved with six days notice – I kinda like that type of move better. This one feels very drawn out. The time will pass quickly though and I will be moved before I know it.

One day next week I need to stop and get chicken feed. I am down to my last bag. The girls go through a little over one bag a week. Won’t miss paying for that but I will miss having unlimited fresh eggs. I am leaving the chickens with the house. The new owners were excited to get chickens again. They have had them in the past so the chickens will be in experienced hands.

The locksmith came today and fixed the back door. I’m grateful to cross that little project off my pending list. Now if the EFIS guy will show up as he said he would next week. Fingers crossed he does. It would really ease my mind when I know he has seen the job and then he can give me an approximate start date. I sure would like to get that repair project done soon.

I really need to figure something out about the booster pump. I keep nagging the plumbers and nothing seems to be happening. I have to have the booster pump fixed before close. It has been several months since it started leaking and nothing has been done about it. May need to find a different plumber for a fix if things don’t get going.

I’m going to get a storage shed of some sorts for the new house. I may go look at those next week to see what is out there. Not sure if I need to have a concrete pad laid to put it on or not. I want to get one big enough to hold a riding mower and all the other stuff like ladders, etc. I won’t have a garage at the Plum St house for a bit and will need somewhere to store that type of stuff. Not sure where to look to find one so I will have to start looking.

I will also need to buy a smaller riding mower. The one I have is way too big for city mowing. I will sell it and then use that money to buy a new, smaller one. The one I have now is a John Deere and the local dealer doesn’t sell small ones. I’ll have to look up ratings and see what I want to get.

Maybe it is a good thing I have three months to get these things done. I can take my time and find exactly what I want with no time pressure. I will have to have both the storage shed and the mower delivered so that will add a complication to the buying process. I’ll have to figure out the timing of delivery too. It will all sort itself out sooner or later. All is well – right?

I’m surprised I have been able to stay at or above neutral lately. I got really angry for a bit yesterday and dipped below but was able to climb back up fairly quickly. I will call that a win! I still am feeling some anger today but have made a plan on what I need to do until close to protect myself. I will have to operate in a way that feels foreign to me and that will feel uncomfortable. Grateful the hard negotiations are done and contact should be minimal.

Grateful for a lazy day at home, grateful for to-do lists that will keep me on track, and grateful for all the upcoming possibilities.

This has not been an easy day. Hit a snag with the final contract negotiations but we got it fixed – kinda. Not sure how I am feeling at this point. I am angry and disappointed in the other side. I got pushed to my limit today and had to push back. I don’t like having to do that but when I reach my limit it starts to feel like it isn’t a choice. It may be a long couple of months before this deal is complete. I am going to have to change how I treat the other side in this deal until then so I protect my own interests. Dang, I hate that.

I signed a contract to sell my house. We will close June 1. Kathy and I will be moving into my rental property in Cottonwood Falls and live there while I build a new house. The new house should be completed early spring if all goes well. It will be a big change for me. I have absolutely loved living in this house but it has become too much for me to handle. The hail damage restoration helped me see that taking care of stuff like that is overwhelming and I am getting too old for that. I want easy these days and that project has been anything but easy.

I have started working with a contractor that will build the new house. He is drawing up plans now and I hope to break ground this summer and move in sometime spring of 2025. The new house will only be about 1,200 square feet with two bedrooms and two full bathrooms. I’m looking forward to having a more manageable size house to take care of.

I have four pending to-do lists going. One for the sale of this house, one for the move to the Plum street house, one for the building project of the new house, and one for my regular life. Yikes! I have a lot on my plate right now.

The deal to sell this house came out of the blue for me. I had seriously been considering selling but was waiting until the EFIS and guttering projects got completed before I put it on the market. The buyer contacted me the end of January and we were able to put together a deal. It started out fairly easy but this last week or so has felt complicated- in my opinion, unnecessarily so. I sure hope I don’t come to regret doing it the way I choose to do so. We are using a title company to write the contract and did not get a realtor involved. I now see the wisdom of using a realtor to do the negotiations.

The good news is the buyer has agreed to handle painting the decks so that project got taken off my plate. Hallelujah for that!

I went to Emporia this afternoon for exercise class. I have done the same set of exercises all week and it felt very easy for me today. The time went by quickly and I was able to do all of the exercises without breaking a sweat today. Next week I will be doing a new set of exercises for the week. Other than having to go to town three times a week for them, I am enjoying this program.

I ordered a different band for my FitBit. My trainer figured out how to put it on and I like the Fitbit much better with the new band. I had to get six bands in a package – they didn’t sell the one I liked as a single band. I will keep a spare one and am going to take the others to the trainer. She is working with another Comet student and will offer one of the new bands to her. I would rather find a home for the new bands than just throw them away.

I was going to stop and pick up a few groceries while I was in town but it was cold and I was cranky so came home instead. I really didn’t need anything urgently and I will be back in town Monday for exercise class and can get them then. We had a very light snow this morning – it made the deck partially white but didn’t stick around very long. It has been windy all afternoon and we only got to the mid 30’s today. Warmer temperatures are coming back next week.

It does feel good to have a signed contract. I was beginning to think that might not happen. If this deal falls through for whatever reason, I will list the house on the open market and go that route. It is time for this house to have a new owner that has the energy to take care of it.

The next three months will be full of me making decisions about downsizing big time. Moving from almost 5,000 square feet to a house that is less than 1,000 square feet will cause me to make some hard decisions about what to keep and what to get rid of. I’m grateful I have lots of time to sort things out and find homes for the things I don’t want to take. I refuse to get a storage unit to keep things in until the new house gets finished.

I will start a pile of giveaways. Be careful if you come see me, I will force you to go through it and take stuff home with you! Ha! Jason will be able to furnish his new house with stuff from this house. Perfect timing for both of us on that deal as he will take some pieces that I won’t have to find another home for. I will not be doing a garage sale as I don’t have the energy for that. If you have been in my house and are interested in a piece or two or three, let me know and I will let you know if it is available. If you know of someone that needs things, let me know that too.

I currently have a set of dishes for 16. I will only be taking enough for 8. I use FiestaWare so if you like it, let me know. I have lots of extra wine glasses, two twin beds with nightstands, extra bedding and pillows, an extra kitchen table with four chairs, extra chairs, extra bath towels and washcloths, extra serving dishes, a bookcase or two, and that is just the stuff I can think of off the top on my head. Please let me know if you can use any of it.

I’m thinking I need to host several more “last parties” here at this house between now and June 1. I know I have several friends that have enjoyed coming to this house and loved the views it had to offer. Hit me up if you want one more visit before it is gone!

Lots going on in my head these days. I think I will be able to take a deep breath tonight and take a few days to let it all sink in and then begin the giant downsizing project. I can do this! I’m grateful I am not a saver and don’t have lots and lots of stuff to sort through. A lot of what I won’t take is stuff I got for this house when I had a retreat center and fed lots of people every weekend. I won’t have the space to do that in the new house so won’t need crowd sized kitchen stuff.

Today tried hard to pull me off center. Thanks to Kathy and Nicole for letting me vent to them. They both allowed me to vent and both reminded me to zoom out and see the big picture of when this is all over with. I appreciated them and their quiet presence and witness to me today. It makes this whole thing easier knowing they are there for me.

Grateful the contract was signed today, grateful for new beginnings and possibilities and grateful for all the wonderful memories this house has given me.

Had trouble finding sleep again last night. I’m getting kinda tired of this. It makes for a long day after a night of little sleep,

I did manage to get two tasks on my to-do list done today. That is all I have gotten done today but it felt good to get those done.

After I took my morning pills this morning it felt like one of the pills had gotten stuck in my esophagus. It is slowly going down but occasionally I get a sharp pain that radiates from where it feels like the pill is. Ouch! I looked it up and there is a medical name for it. It can take hours to several days for it to pass. Yikes! This is not very comfortable and I trust it will move on down very soon.

Still haven’t gotten the contract that I need to sign. I know it is finished but the lady that sends the document sign things out had to miss work this morning. I was told to expect it this afternoon. Maybe it will still come today – we shall see.

Still need to do my exercises for the day. They only take 12 – 15 minutes so won’t take long to do. I’ll go down in a bit and take care of the chickens and get the mail and then come in and do them.

My body feels like it is stuck in fight or flight mode this afternoon. I have this urgency feeling that there is something important that needs to be done NOW but there isn’t anything. And this too shall pass! It has been a crazy couple of weeks around here and I think I need some down time to process it all and allow whatever feelings I have to come up and be released.

I tried to take a nap this afternoon and managed to sleep for a little bit but struggled to stay asleep. I sure wish I knew why sleep is so hard to find sometimes.

The wind has finally calmed down today. It was blowing like crazy for a bit last night. We have a chance for some snow showers tomorrow morning and then it is going to warm up for next week. February has been very mild after such a tough January. Here is to hoping that March will be mild too.

Tomorrow I have to go to Emporia for exercise at 2:15. Should be able to stay home all weekend. I haven’t gotten any groceries this week but not sure I need any. I’ll check before I go to town tomorrow so if I do need a few things I can get them and not have to go back to town. So far next week looks to be a quiet week except for three trips to town for exercise and two trips to town for tax prep.

Going to town three days a week for exercise feels like a lot to me. I think it is compounded by doing taxes right now too. I used to only go to town twice a week so making five trips to town in one week feels like overload. I’m sure I will get used to it sooner or later and tax season only lasts till early April. I am reminded how habitual of a person I am and any time I break my “normal” pattern, I feel it in my body.

Grateful for a day at home to refill, grateful the wind has calmed down, and grateful I have gained awareness of my body so I understand what it needs.

It was a long day. I was in town by 9:00 this morning to do taxes at the Senior Center. I got done around 11:45. Ran a couple of errands and then decided to come home as I didn’t have any thing else to do until 3:30. Came home for two hours and then went back to town to go to exercise.

We did the same video we had done Monday at exercise class today. It was easier today as I knew what to expect. The time goes fairly quickly and we get lots of rest in between sets of exercises. They don’t want my heart over 100 so they don’t work me too hard.

I stopped and got a little something to eat and then went to the Credit Union and did another tax shift. I lose track how many returns I do and how many I review. I had a bit of a challenging one tonight but I asked for help and got through it.

Finally got home for the day a little after 8:00 tonight. Grateful I get to stay home tomorrow and refill.

Stopped by John Deere to pay the mower service bill. They still haven’t delivered the mower and the guy that delivers has a personal emergency and won’t be back until next week sometime. Good thing I don’t need the mower right now. It will get home someday soon.

I was hoping to sign the final contract today but I didn’t get it yet. I know it got revised today as they called to ask for a clarification on something. I will get it tomorrow and get it signed. That will be huge for me and a real relief.

It was another beautiful day on the prairie today. The temperature hit 68 today. It was windy though so it didn’t feel that warm but I didn’t have to wear a coat down to do the chickens. I will take a day like this in February anytime. It is going to cool down a bit through the weekend and then heat back up next week. We may hit the low 70’s next week.

I have a couple of little projects to work on tomorrow. None of them are urgent but I would feel better if I got started on them. I’m hoping the locksmith will make it out tomorrow or Friday and get the back door fixed. I don’t like when little projects get dragged out longer than I think they should. I have no control over when the repair guys show up. Must have needed another lesson on patience.

Still holding myself above the neutral level on the consciousness scale. I’m amazed I have been able to do that. Lots going on around here and most of it is hurry up and wait. I don’t do that well.

Grateful this long day is over, grateful I have a rest day tomorrow, and grateful for a spring like day on the prairie.

Had another night of very little sleep. If I managed to fall asleep, I didn’t stay asleep very long. Doubt if I got more than two hours total last night. It has been a long day! Both Kathy and Nicole told me today that they didn’t sleep well last night either. Something is going on that is pulling us all off center. Curious minds want to know what!

Got two huge trash bags full of trash taken down with the usual load of trash today. Some came out of the garage and some of it came out of the barn. I will continue to fill a couple bags a week until I get rid of what needs to go. Feels good to get that process started.

The girls gave me 22 eggs today. Two were in the nesting boxes laying when I was gathering eggs. If I had waited, I might have gotten 24 eggs today. Wow! That would have set a new record for this group of hens.

I got hold of the EFIS repair guy today. He has to go to Wichita next week and said he would stop by and look at the project so when they get ready to do it there won’t be a delay. I sure hope that project gets done soon. I am so tired of dealing with this hail damage restoration that started way back last August. I’m grateful he is actually coming to look at it. He bid it using pictures I had sent him and measurements the window guy provided. Once he gets that done I can have the guttering guys come and then I can close out this insurance claim.

I’ve been in negotiations on the contract most of the day. I think we are close to getting a document to sign. What a relief that will be when that happens. It still may happen today. Once I get the contract signed I will spill the beans and let everyone know what is going on behind the scenes in my life.

The John Deere people were to have delivered the mower this morning but so far they haven’t shown up. They did this last time it was in for service too. After about a month of waiting for it, I had to call and remind them they still needed to deliver it. That is why I try to get it taken care of early so it gets home before I need it.

Still need to do my 15 minutes of exercise for the day. I was going to do them before I ate lunch but I forgot so now need to wait for lunch to settle a bit before I do them. My tummy has been feeling a bit off today and I don’t want to give it a reason to go gangster on me anymore than it is already. I was not sore at all when I woke up this morning from the exercise I did yesterday. Hooray for that. That was one of my biggest concerns with this program and that didn’t happen.

Jason was impressed with what they had done with me yesterday at exercise. He said most injuries happen when people jump in too hard and fast when they are beginning an exercise program. He really liked that they took it slow and gentle. I will have to find some patience with this program and trust that what I am doing will pay dividends for me down the line.

Tomorrow will be a long day in town. I will be doing taxes at the Senior Center from 9:00 – 12:00. I have exercise at 3:30 and then another tax shift at the Credit Union from 5:00 – 8:00. I have a couple of errands to run in between so not sure if I will come home for a bit or not. We will see how long the errands take.

Other than exercise at home on Thursday and in Emporia on Friday, I don’t have anything on my calendar for the rest of the week after tomorrow. It will be good to have several quiet days at home. I have some things I need to work on and that will give me several days to get a good start on them.

Sitting in a good place mentally today. There has been a lot going on but I have managed to stay on top of most of it so far and not let it pull me off center. Sure hoping I get a good night’s sleep tonight. It is hard to think straight when I am sleep deprived and now is not a good time for me to miss something.

It has been a beautiful day on the prairie, although it has been a touch windy. We have hit 63 so far today and the forecast only called for 37. I’ll take 63 over 37 any day!

Grateful for no muscle soreness today, grateful for a beautiful spring-like day, and grateful the clean out garage and barn project got started.

It has been a long day. I met someone at 8:00 this morning in Cottonwood Falls. I had a list of things I needed to talk to them about and we got it all covered and were done with our meeting by 8:30.

I came home and went back to bed. I had trouble getting a nap in though as my phone kept ringing and I kept getting texts and messages. Gave up and got up and got a few things done.

Had a phone conversation with the people that are drawing up the contract I have been working on with someone. Good to get to this point in the process and am hoping to see a rough draft later this week. That will feel good to get that signed and enter into the final stages of that legally.

I left the house a little after 1:00 this afternoon to go to my 1:30 exercise class. The coordinator from KU came down and met with me and my trainer. She had trouble getting my new Fitbit to work so that meeting lasted about 30 minutes longer than she expected it to.

Once I got through all the paperwork and learning how to use the Fitbit and track my exercise time, the trainer and I did my first workout together.

We watched a video of exercises and did them along with the video. The trainer did them too – kinda. She coached me once or twice but otherwise we just watched the video and did what they said to do.

It was a simple routine. I was told they start me off slow and gradually increase the intensity of the exercises we do. I don’t think I will be sore tomorrow as it didn’t feel I got a very hard workout in. I sat in a chair or stood by the chair during today’s exercises. Hard to think what I did today will do much good but I don’t know much about this type of thing.

I worked out for about 40 minutes today. I have exercises I have to do at home tomorrow that they said would only take about 15 minutes. I go back to the gym on Wednesday afternoon and then again on Friday. I only have to do 150 minutes of exercise per week to meet the goal they have set for me. With doing the gym for 30 -40 minutes three times a week I won’t have to do much at home to get the 150 minutes.

After I was done at the gym I went and had lunch. I then stopped at McDonald’s and picked up 30 fry boxes. I was out of them and like to have them on hand. They come in handy many times. I am going to clean the garage out tomorrow and then work on the barn and needed some boxes to put stuff in to give away.

I headed over to do taxes. It was a slow night as two people called and cancelled and two others didn’t show up. I much prefer nights when we are busy. I don’t like to sit and visit and wait. I only prepared one return but I checked three returns. I got done early and was out of there by 7:30.

Tomorrow I have a free day at home. I will have to do my 15 minutes of exercises but have nothing else on my calendar. I hope to be able to tackle cleaning out the garage tomorrow. It desperately needs cleaned out.

Wednesday I go back to town for two different tax preparation sessions and exercise in between. I’ll go see the Chiropractor and I have two errands to take care of while I am in town Wednesday.

It will be good to have a free day tomorrow. I need a day to slow things down a bit and take care of a few little things. I forgot to call the locksmith today so need to take care of that tomorrow.

Felt good to get the first exercise session in. The program definitely feels doable to me now. I’m sure the intensity will increase as time goes by and I will be able to tell I am working out. I liked the trainer and think we will get along OK together. It will take me a bit to get in the routine of all of it but I can do this.

I sure like days when I get to stay home better than the days I spend most of my time in town. I didn’t get drained being in town most of the day. I will consider today a win as a result. I’m grateful I have tomorrow to stay home and refill.

Grateful the first day of exercise is successfully completed, grateful the contract is being drawn up, and grateful I get to stay home all day tomorrow.

We are watching the Super Bowl as I type. Neither team is looking good right now. I’m sure the nerves will settle down soon and it will turn into a better game.

Tagen and Lily came out around 3:15 and had dinner. Kathy and I ate with them. Michelle and Ellexia came around 4:45. Jason and Ellexia had dinner then.

Jason made a sausage, hamburger cheese dip and I made a meat and cheese tray and a cheesecake to eat during the game. No chance anyone will go hungry here today! It is fun watching the game with the kids. We rearrange the living room so everyone has a comfortable chair to sit in to watch the game.

I have done four loads of dishes so far today and will have at least one more if not two more loads to do before the day is over. I must like to dirty dishes when I cook.

I need to remember to call the locksmith tomorrow morning and find out why he didn’t come Saturday and find a time when he can come.

Tomorrow I am meeting someone in Cottonwood Falls at 8:00. I’ll have to remember to set my alarm when I go to bed tonight so I can get up and get around to get to town by 8:00. I have to be in Emporia at 1:30 to go to my first exercise session. I have a couple of errands to do afterwards. I should be done by 3:00. I have to be at taxes at 5:00 so not sure if I will come home in between or not.

Tuesday I have a free day and on Wednesday I am doing taxes again both in the morning and evening.

I made some progress on my long list of things to do today. Contacted four people on my list and got things started with them. I will stop at four places tomorrow and get four more things started or taken care of. It feels good to get things moving along.

I’m hoping I can get the garage cleaned out one day this week. It is to be 57 Tuesday and if it isn’t too windy I can do it then. I also need to get down to the barn and get started on cleaning it out. Both projects are way over due.

Hoping to sign a contract this week sometime. We shall see if that can happen. Not sure how long it takes to draw up the contract. We have a handshake agreement but not sure it feels real yet until I have a contract.

I’m a bit nervous about the exercise class tomorrow. I have a tendency to make the anticipation of something worse than it could ever play out when it happens. It will be so good to have the first one over and done with it. Have my fingers crossed that I will be able to walk on Tuesday without soreness.

Still able to hold myself above the neutral level on the consciousness chart. Lots going on but am excited about the possible changes ahead for me. I had lots of empty space on my calendar and now I understand why. Things are going to get busy around here if this deal goes through.

Grateful to have a house full to watch the game with tonight, grateful some things got crossed off my to-do list today, and grateful my exercise program gets started tomorrow.

Had a productive meeting last night. We took another step forward to making a deal. We should make it final sometime next week. Fingers crossed this deal happens and I can begin a new life path. Details to come soon!

Had four women over this afternoon. We worked on putting our final wishes in written format. We laughed, we cried and had a delightful time working on our wishes. Grateful all of us were on the same page with what we want to happen. Made it easier to go deep and have some tough conversations. Grateful for their trust and presence today.

Brought up 20 eggs from the girls after the women left. The rooster didn’t even come close to me today. The weather felt more like February weather this afternoon. I definitely had to have a coat, scarf, hat and gloves today for my trip down to the coop.

Went to Emporia when I finished chores and picked up things for dinner tomorrow night. I didn’t sleep much last night and will go to bed early tonight and hopefully can sleep in tomorrow. Since I went to town today I don’t have to set my alarm to get up and go to town in the morning.

The Locksmith didn’t show up today. Not sure why. I didn’t hear from him. I will call him Monday and find another time for him to come out. Fingers crossed I will be able to keep the door closed and be able to open it until he can get out here and fix it.

I’m fixing Tagen a ham, cheesy potatoes, macaroni and cheese, and a cheesecake for dinner tomorrow night. Jason got some stuff to make a hamburger, sausage, and cheese dip and I got some meat and cheese to make a snack tray. We will all eat our way through the football game.

I got a text today requesting I help to do taxes Monday night. I have to go to town at 1:30 for my first exercise class and will be done with that at 3:00. I barely have time to go home and then I will have to turn around and go back to town to do a tax shift from 5:00 – 8:00.

I have started making a long list of things to do next week. Some I can do from home and some I have to go to town for. Lots of decisions to be made soon to get things moving along. I had trouble sleeping last night so got up and made a list of things that I will need to take care of. I had hoped that would let my mind quiet down and let me sleep but it didn’t help much. Sure hate nights like last night where sleep is almost impossible to find.

I have come to truly understand and know that when things are easy for me, that is the right path to be on. I wish I had learned that when I was 30 or 40 instead of at the age of 70 but better late than never, Forcing anything these days just doesn’t work for me any more.

Grateful for the presence of my guests this afternoon, grateful groceries for tomorrow are in the house, and grateful for life lessons I learn daily.

Another quiet, stay-at-home type of day on the prairie. I did get a batch of cookies made for the Workshop tomorrow. I picked up a little bit around here but haven’t done much else today. I fell asleep in my chair and took a short nap this afternoon. Lazy, beautiful day on the prairie today.

A neighbor came up and got two dozen eggs. We had a nice short visit. I got some good information from her so the timing of her visit was divinely inspired.

I have someone coming over in a bit to talk some business with me. We shall see where this all goes. Hoping for the best but not expecting anything to change. We shall see what happens.

The girls gave me 21 eggs today. One was broken so they got that one back. It is drying up a bit down there. I still wore my muck boots and was glad I had them on but am thinking by the first of the week the mud will be dry. The girls are approving of this mild weather we are having right now. It was forecast to be in the low 40’s and we got up to the upper 50’s today.

If the night temperature would warm up a bit the EFIS guys could get the house done. It has to be above 40 day and night for four or five days before they will come to do the work. Daytime temperatures are making it way past that but we are still getting too cold during the night.

I did get two more forms for tomorrow’s workshop typed up. I’m grateful I remembered to get those done.

Tomorrow will be a busy day with the locksmith coming in the morning and the Advanced Directive Workshop in the afternoon. I still have room in the Workshop if you want to join us. Cost is $25 and that will get you most, if not all the way, complete with your end of life care plan. It should be informative and I will make it as fun as possible. It is a heavy subject to talk about but it does provide a lot of peace when you are done. It is a wonderful gift to give your loved ones.

Sunday Tagen and Lily are coming out for dinner and to watch the game. Not sure if Michelle and Ellexia are coming or not. Not sure what I am fixing yet but I will figure that out Sunday. Just need to fix lots whatever it is! That man-child can eat.

Monday at 1:30 I have to be at Emporia Fitness for my first exercise class. Someone from KU Research Program is coming to give me a new Fitbit and to make sure I get started out OK. I will be going to the gym three days a week and then on the other days doing exercises at home. Sure hope I enjoy this and it works for me.

Next Wednesday I will do two sessions of tax prep and fit exercise in between the two sessions. Don’t have anything else on my calendar next week except another exercise class on Friday.

Need to make a trip to either Topeka or Wichita one of these days soon and get deck paint. It has been warm enough to paint during the day. I may go ahead and get the front decks done before the EFIS gets repaired. They don’t have much to do on the east side of the house except around the windows so I think I will be good to get that done before they come. I may change the color of the deck paint. What I have shows dirt too much – especially with the dog’s dirty paws walking all over it.

Ever since I had that day in January when I realized the Universe has my back and can line things up to my advantage, I feel I have shifted. I keep noticing more and more how things are working out for me. I still struggle to allow the journey to unfold in a new way and on a timeline I don’t know. I keep reminding myself to stay patient and allow. All is well and all will be well!

Grateful for a short nap in my chair this afternoon, grateful for a divinely timed visit from a friend today, and grateful for another reminder that the Universe has my back.

It has been a delightful day of doing nothing. It is in the mid 60’s out with a bright blue sky. It is very windy though. We have had a wind gust of 48.7 MPH so far today. I have been soaking up the beauty of the prairie today sitting in my favorite chair in the corner of my living room.

I did at least three tax returns last night and I might have done four. I lose track easily of how many I do. We are reviewing each other’s work this year which is a change for this site. That is the way we did them in Oklahoma. It speeds up the process as when we used to only have one person that reviewed them, the people would have to wait a bit to get done. Ran into a few glitches but overall it was an easy night. I enjoy working with the guy that is the moderator at this site. When I make a mistake, he takes the time to teach me what I did wrong so I won’t keep repeating the mistake. I appreciate that.

This has been another low energy type of day for me. I keep telling myself I need to get up and do something but nothing is tempting me enough to get my ass out of my chair and get up and take care of it. Nothing feels urgent enough to bother doing. Have some cleaning that needs done but it seems to be patiently waiting for me to get to it.

I read a Facebook meme from Carolyn Myss which said “The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to the present time. And that’s why when one has become a forgiving person and has managed to let go of the past, what they’ve really done is they’ve shifted their relationship with time.” I keep thinking about that and am finding it very true. Right here, right now, in this present moment, all is well. What happened in the past is no longer dragging me down as all is well, right here, right now. As long as I can stay present to the present moment, all is well. That seems powerful to me in new ways every time I think about it. In this present moment, no one is hurting me, I’m not hurting anyone, and no one has the power to dim my light. All is well. Is that forgiveness? Maybe? I will continue to contemplate this statement and search for even deeper understanding.

I have an abundance of eggs on hand right now if anyone needs some. The girls are appreciating this warmer weather and are laying like crazy right now.

Tomorrow I have someone coming over in the afternoon. Saturday I have the Locksmith coming to fix my back door in the morning and then the Advanced Directives Workshop in the afternoon. Sunday is the Super Bowl and I think Tagen and Lily are coming for dinner and to watch the game. Monday I start my exercise program. I’m excited and nervous to have the first appointment. I trust I will enjoy my trainer and will adapt to exercising without much physical discomfort. It will be weird going to town three times a week and having something on my calendar three times a week.

Still sitting with a major potential life change in front of me. Working on some bits and pieces of it and sitting with what will be the best path forward for me. Sometimes the path feels very clear to me and then I come to a fork and have to sit and wait for guidance as to what direction to take. All is good and all is well. I have full confidence that the best path for me will be made clear to me when the timing is right.

Grateful for this beautiful spring-like day, grateful for new learnings and understanding about forgiveness, and grateful for a new potential path in my future.

Busy morning for me. I was at the Senior Center at 8:45 as I was requested to be there early. No one else showed up until 9:00. I was able to log on and do a return. When they went to have the return reviewed, which is part of the process, they couldn’t find the return. They finally figured out I didn’t log in under the Senior Center ID. No one told me I had a different log in name and password for the Senior Center.

The lady that does the computer authorizations had approved me to do returns at the Credit Union but hadn’t given me authorization to do them at the Senior Center. Not sure why that happened but out of my control.

Then there was another issue that came up. I was to have assigned the review to someone. I didn’t know about that and that wasn’t required Monday night. When I had them attempt to show me where it was in the process that I had missed, they couldn’t find it. No one can explain why it doesn’t show up. If I remember right from four years ago, the initial thing shows up when you review the return but it might have changed. This system is complicated and not easy to figure out sometimes.

Left the Senior Center at 10:00 and went to my doctor’s appointment. It was a routine six month medication check. It only took the doctor five minutes with me. He did want me to get my thyroid levels checked afterwards. I had to wait for the lab lady for about 15 minutes to get a blood draw.

Went back to the Senior Center and did another return. We were out of clients for the day so I left at 11:30.

I went to the Chiropractor and got adjusted. I then dropped off the big trash bag full of clothes I had taken out of my closet at Salvation Army. Then I dropped off something at my Property Manager’s house and dropped off some cookies for Tagen. Went through the car wash and then went to Walmart for groceries.

Got what I needed the old fashioned way inside the store. Came home and got everything unloaded and put away. It was a whirlwind trip to town, especially with all the confusion with the tax thing. Thankfully those kinks will all get worked out over the next week or so and then things should go fairly smoothly.

I have to go back to Emporia tonight for another round of tax prep. I do enjoy interacting with the clients and am finding doing the taxes easy, compared to the testing issues. I’m grateful I have an empty space day tomorrow to recover in. I will be tired by the time I get home tonight.

The doctor’s office called shortly after I got home to tell me my TSH level was 3.76. That is a touch high but not bad. I may need to go back to the 125 dose instead of the lower dose of 112. I will be surprised if my Endocrinologist changes the dose though. She usually lets it ride for a bit. I will have it checked again in May when I go see her Nurse Practitioner for a regular check up.

It is a windy day on the prairie today with even more wind coming tomorrow. It is 58 out which is warmer than forecast. It is partly cloudy so it doesn’t feel as warm as it is.

I have a free afternoon except for doing chicken chores. I may try to do some cleaning and work out some pent up frustration from this morning. Moving my body always helps move that up and out.

Feeling a bit scattered and ungrounded this afternoon. Chaos like this morning can pulled me off my center – especially when it happens needlessly. I will get up and move my body and take some extra time doing chicken chores outdoors and see if that will help me get grounded. I still feel I am at or above the neutral level so that is good. Trusting tonight will be easy and fun and won’t pull me down.

Grateful my errands for the day got taken care of, grateful for some empty space time this afternoon, and grateful that actually doing the taxes is easy.

This has been a quiet day on the prairie. I feel tired today and have low energy. Decided to declare it a rest day and not do much – not that I do much most days.

Good news – Michelle let me know she got her car out. Not sure how but am grateful she did. What an experience that was for her. Traveling on unknown gravel roads when it is dark and rainy is dangerous.

John Deere came and picked up the lawn mower to take it in for its annual service. They had called to tell me they were on their way so I went down and drove the mower out of the barn for them. I saw the truck come and pick it up but didn’t talk to them. They know what to do with it as they do it every year. It always come back looking fairly new.

I changed three light bulbs today. The hallway one had burned out and I can’t reach it using my small step ladder. I have a bulb changer on a long pole that I remembered I had so used that. The other two were in the pantry and I had to get a ladder to reach them. Burned out light bulbs bother me and these had been out for a bit. Glad I remembered to get them changed today.

It has warmed up to 54 today which is higher than the forecast predicted. It is partly cloudy with light wind. I’ll take the mid 50’s anytime in February. Spring is coming – I can feel it!

Jason has pool league tonight so won’t be home for dinner. I had a late lunch so won’t need to fix dinner tonight for me.

Tomorrow will be a busy day. I have to be at the Senior Center at 8:45 to do taxes. I have a Doctor’s appointment at 10:30 so will leave at 10:00 to go to that. If I get out of the Doctor’s by 11:00 I’ll go back and do another tax return. After that I will go to the Chiropractor and then stop and get a few groceries. I have a big bag of clothes to drop off at the Salvation Army while I am downtown. I have to come back to town to do taxes at 5:00 Wednesday evening.

Thursday and Friday are still empty space days – so far. That seems to change quick around here though. Saturday I have the Locksmith coming in the morning and then the Advanced Directives Workshop in the afternoon. Sunday is Super Bowl. I think Tagen and Lily are coming out to watch the game and have dinner with me.

This is one of those days where my mind is very quiet. It is hard to hold on to a thought for long. I feel like I am in slow motion of sorts today. I don’t think I would do well taking a test of any sort today, can’t process very quickly today. It feels good to slow down and relax into being today and not doing. Going to allow this to play out today and enjoy the quiet within. It doesn’t happen often!

Grateful the light bulbs got changed, grateful Michelle’s car got out of the mud, and grateful for a quiet mind today.

I got a text this morning from the tax coordinator asking if I would do taxes tonight as one of the ladies was sick. I said yes so I went in this evening. I had to be there a bit early so they could hook my Chrome book up to the printer. Good thing I went in early as I was not registered in the system. They had to call someone who had to do something in the system to let me into the program. That process took about 15 minutes. Dang, I don’t understand why simple things can get so complicated sometimes.

I did three returns tonight. I was surprised that I was able to do most of them without help. It came back to me. I had forgotten how much fun it is to interact with the people as I do taxes. They are so appreciative of our help and so patient with me. I do taxes again Wednesday morning at the Senior Center and then again Wednesday evening at the Emporia Credit Union.

The rooster came after me today. He kinda came out of nowhere as I was leaving the coop. I dropped the basket of eggs I was carrying and went after him with the ball bat. I whacked him good a couple of times. He stopped and squatted and then shit. I must have scared the shit out of him – literally! I gave him another whack for good measure. I’ll see what he does tomorrow. That guy has met his match!

I broke six eggs when I dropped the egg basket. I have lots of eggs on hand so no worries. I didn’t give the girls the broken eggs as I wasn’t going to reward the rooster for his misbehavior. Petty of me I know!

There is fog rolling in again tonight. It is disorienting to drive in. I missed turning onto V Road when I was coming home from town tonight. I realized it when I hit the curve on the road towards Strong City. I turned around and found my correct turnoff spot.

I realized how much I have changed since I did taxes in 2020. It was very easy for me to ask for help tonight. I wasn’t able to do that in 2020. I used to get anxious and nervous about doing them and tonight I relaxed into the fun of doing them instead. I didn’t rush through them like I used to either.

I fixed some goulash before I went to town to do taxes and put it in the crockpot so it would be ready for Jason when he got home tonight. I had a bit when I got home too. I had never put goulash in the crockpot before. It was good but the noodles got very soft as it was in there for four hours. It did the trick though and we both got a hot dinner when we got home.

I think I have a free day tomorrow. I had planned on having one today but that didn’t happen. I did remember to call John Deere and they are coming tomorrow to pick up the big riding mower and take it in for service. The heating guys called to let me know the price of the damper motor I need and to get permission to order that. The propane company came and filled the propane tank today. Between those three things I spent over $1,600 today. Not bad for not leaving home! Yikes, money sure can fly out of this house.

I also called the locksmith. The back door leading to the garage has a plate that is messing up and the door is hard to keep close. I’m afraid I won’t be able to get the door open and closed one of these days. He is to come Saturday morning and fix it. $$$$

I went through my closet today and gathered up a huge trash bag full of clothes to get rid of. If I hadn’t worn a winter item this winter that was hanging in my closet, I got rid of it today. Feels good to have less clothes in my closet, especially since I never wore whaat I got rid of. Don’t know why I keep things around that I don’t use. I think I forget to go through them and get rid of them.

I need to do the same thing in the pantry and see what I can get rid of from there. It is too full and getting cluttered again. I tend to keep things because I have lots of space and not because the item is actually something I ever use. Time to get things cleaned out and downsize what I have again.

I need to do some final preparation tomorrow for the Five Wishes Workshop I am hosting on Saturday afternoon. I have most everything ready but wanted to print out a sheet that talks about the odds of success for CPR on older adults. I think some will find that helpful as they make a decision on their wishes about having CPS done on them. It rarely works on older adults and if it does there can be long-term damage done and added complications to a person’s wellbeing afterwards.

There is still space in the workshop for more participants. We are starting at 2:00 and will work on your advanced directives. The cost is $25 and you may get through it all or you may need to finish it at a later date. I can notarize and make everything legal for you that day. You are welcome to come join us.

Wednesday I will do taxes both in the morning and evening. I also have a doctor’s appointment in the morning. That will be a long day for me. Haven’t figured out what to do with myself in the afternoon so will probably make two trips to town that day. My exercise program doesn’t start until next week. As far as I know now, I have empty space on Thursday and Friday.

Felt good to have the first day of doing taxes under my belt. I now know I can do them this year and will have fun doing so. It also felt good to have made a couple of phone calls today and get the mower and back door fix started. Somedays I just can’t make myself make a phone call.

Grateful to have been in service to three families today by doing taxes, grateful I could make some needed phone calls today, and grateful for a lighter closet tonight.

Another rainy day on the prairie. Loving the rain but missing the sunshine. I just came up from doing chicken chores and the temperature is dropping. My hands are cold from being outside for 10 minutes. The girls were all inside already which is a bit unusual for them. They must not approve of this cooler weather either.

Last night I got a text from Michelle. She had gone out in the country to pick Ellexia up and got stuck. I gave her the phone number for the towing company. She called me back and told me the tow truck couldn’t help her as they would have gotten stuck too. They recommend she call someone with a tractor.

Thank heavens Jason is here and he went to the rescue. Michelle had to walk down the road she was on to meet Jason at the intersection. Jason almost got stuck too but luckily managed to get out. He took Michelle home. Ellexia’s friend’s mother came and got her and her friend and took Ellexia home. Michelle’s car is still stuck in the middle of a county road. She called the sheriff and told them what was going on. Hoping it stops raining soon so she can figure something out tomorrow that can get her car free. Hope she didn’t damage something on the bottom of it. She said she is up the hubcaps in mud.

I went to Emporia early afternoon. I stopped and gave Tagen the dessert that I made for him. I cut a few pieces out for Jason as Jason enjoys this dessert too. Got to see Ellexia for a minute too.

I went to the Celebration of Life Service for a dear friend. I was able to get to talk to one of her daughters and give her a hug. There was a growing crowd there. They were going to have a short program but I didn’t stay for that. Lisa is well loved and admired and the size of the crowd today reflected that. Gone much too soon.

I went back by Michelle’s house afterwards so I could talk to Michelle for a minute. I offered her the use of my car for Monday and Tuesday but she said she had worked something out and she was good. She has a friend that is coming tomorrow to help her get her car out.

While I was in town the tax coordinator called me to tell me the slides I had been given Friday were the wrong ones. When I got home I managed to find the right ones and finished up my training by watching two videos and answering questions along the way. I think I am finally done with tax prep. Thank God doing taxes is much easier! My first shift is this Wednesday. I will be doing them from 9 – noon at the Emporia Senior Center and again from 5 – 8 in the evening at the Credit Union. It will make a long day for me but it only takes one day of my time each week. Once I get into the swing of it, I will enjoy doing them.

I get to stay home the next two days this week. I am a bit cranky this afternoon so will enjoy having some empty space and no where to go. We have a chance for some snow overnight and it is only going to be 45 for the high tomorrow. It will be a good day to stay tucked inside by the fireplace. The rest of the week is to be in the high 50’s and lower 60’s.

My personal tax accountant lady sent an email today and needed a few dates of when I did some capital improvements on the rentals. Wow! I might get my taxes completed early this year. I am expecting a refund so that will be good to get it early. I was surprised she is working on them already. Usually she doesn’t get to them till mid March.

My pending list is the shortest it has been for a long time right now. Not many things on it that I can handle. Most are things that are in the hands of someone else that I am waiting on them to do their thing. Hope I can keep the list short for a bit. It was rather long a couple weeks ago.

Need to remember to call John Deere tomorrow and find a time when they can come pick up the mower for its annual service. It will be mowing season before I know it. I have lots of yard work to do this spring as I got behind last year and never did get caught up. Maybe I can twist Jason’s arm and get him to help me get some things done.

I need to schedule a weekend and have all the kids and grandkids come home and help me get the decks painted. I don’t want that project to take all of my summer. Trusting by late March the EFIS will be done and if everyone comes, we could get all three decks painted in one weekend with us all painting at the same time. Maybe I will use the old lady card and they will take pity on me and come help me out.

I also need to find someone to cut the little trees down around the fenced lagoon. I never did get that done last year. Time to start thinking about projects like that to get done this spring. The flower beds desperately need cleaned up too.

I’ve attended three memorial services in the last two weeks. All were people that were my age or younger. Really makes me stop and think about my life and how tomorrow is never promised. I need to stop worrying about things I can’t control and get out there and live my life big!

Grateful Michelle, Jason and Ellexia got home safe last night, grateful my tax prep crap is officially completed, and grateful I have two free empty space days ahead of me.

Rainy day on the prairie. We need the rain so I won’t complain. My Tempest weather station is showing we have gotten about one half of an inch of rain so far. We have good chances for rain all through tomorrow. It is in the low 50’s which feels a bit cold after hitting the high 60’s the last couple of days. Still very nice temperatures compared to the brutal cold we had in January. It is to be in the low 50’s to low 60’s most of next week. I’ll take those temperatures in February anytime.

I’ve been lazy today. This last week has felt crazy busy and I needed a quiet day. I did drive to Matfield Green this afternoon to attend a Celebration of Life for a friend’s son. It was well attended and well done. I didn’t know many people so I didn’t stay for the reception afterwards. I got to hug my friend and then I came back home.

I have another Celebration of Life service to go to tomorrow afternoon. This one is for a friend of mine. She was my age and her daughter and my daughter were in Girl Scouts together. I was so sad when I heard she had died. She was a wonderful human that was kind, funny and generous to others. She will be missed greatly by all that knew her.

Last night I heard a knocking sound outside. Finally figured out it was from an old cable wire that must have broken the zip tie at the roof line and was blowing and hitting the side of the house. When I came through Strong City on the way home I stopped at the hardware store and told them I needed a tool that would cut that suckers head off. They laughed and helped me find a wire cutter. Got home and went out to cut the wire. I wasn’t strong enough to cut through it but I was able to pull it all the way down from the down spout and put it on the ground. That sucker banged against the house all night and woke me up several times. I told Kathy that this house has gremlins sometimes! Good to have gotten that one taken care of.

I almost fell into the muck when I went down to do the chickens. It is one muddy mess out there. I still have a bit of snow that hasn’t melted completely yet and with the rain it has added a layer of slick to the mud. The rooster stayed away from me today – good boy! I got 20 eggs for my slippery trip down to the coop today. The eggs are muddy – I wish I could teach the girls how to wipe their feet before they get in the nesting boxes.

I need to make a dessert I promised Tagen I would make for him so I can take it to town with me tomorrow afternoon when I go. It is one of Jason’s favorites too so I will take some out for Jason. It is a good day to be in the kitchen. I may bake some cookies too if I find some energy to do so.

I’m trying to decide if I want to get the hepatitis vaccine. Has any one gotten it yet? Did you have a reaction to it if so? I only need it if I decide to do more international travel. It is a series of three shots over six months. Not sure how likely it is that I will doing any international travel travel to a country where getting exposed is a real possibility. I guess if I decide to do the walking tour of the Himalayans next year I can schedule the series before I go.

I sure could fall asleep right now. I got more sleep last night than I had the two nights before but the cable cord kept waking me up. A nap on a rainy afternoon sounds luxurious and I might have to indulge myself.

I need to remember to call John Deere and have them come pick up my mower for its annual service. I keep forgetting to do that. It will be mowing season before I know it. I need to get it in before they get really busy. I love that they will come pick it up and then bring it back to me when it is done. I do have to pay for that but it makes it so easy for me that I don’t mind the extra charge. I don’t have a way to get it in without bugging someone else otherwise.

I have a trailer that I need to sell. It is a long one and I have no way of pulling it and need it out of my way. Not sure how to go about selling it and what it might be worth. I forget about it most of the time as it is down in the shop and I rarely go in there. I have a lot of spring cleaning I need to do in the shop this spring. Time to get rid of some things that are in there and get the shop cleaned up.

The fog is starting to roll in. It will be a quiet night on the prairie. Should be good sleeping weather. Love that we are getting some moisture but I will welcome the sun when it comes back out to play.

Grateful for the rain on the prairie today, grateful the cable wire is down, and grateful for rainy day naps.

What a day! I went to Emporia early afternoon to drop off something for Ellexia. I had two checks to deposit and then I had a quick lunch. Went to the tax coordinator’s house and finished up getting certified to do taxes. It was a bit of a circus at the meeting. I think there were three phone conversations going at the same time at one point.

I was pleased that two of the three problems in the workbook that I completed were correct. The second one I gave up on and they gave me the answers. It was a situational problem that we will not see while doing taxes. My give a shit level was pretty low by that point and I was done with it all.

Found out the reason I had trouble doing another portion of the taxes was I hadn’t been given the download I needed to do them on. What a difference that made. The one problem that I had worked was correct so I called that exercise good too. There were three other problems I could have worked on but the coordinator said not to worry about them.

Not sure the final two things I had to do was sent to me correctly. I may have two more things to read. We shall see. It seems to be a bit chaotic to get these last minute things taken care of. There are broken parts in the system that drive me crazy. Good thing actually doing taxes is easy.

I am going to be working from 9 – 12 and from 5 – 8 every Wednesday starting next week through April 10. Hoping I can work my exercise program in the afternoon. I will have to find something to do in Emporia every Wednesday afternoon for a couple of hours. Not sure I want to put 70 miles on my car every week by making two trips to town that day. Ideas? Anyone know of a volunteer thing I could do in Emporia on Wednesday afternoons?

When I got done doing taxes I went to Walmart to pick up my grocery order. I was early but one of the workers checked in with me and he checked me in and I got my order early. Bless his heart. I can now order ice with my on-line order. Yay!

Came home and got everything unloaded and put away and did the chicken chores. I got 22 eggs again today. They are meeting their summer high production right now. I think they like these 70 degree February days. The rooster gave me the stink eye today but left me alone.

Tomorrow I am going to Matfield Green to a Celebration of Life Service in the afternoon. I have another service to go to Sunday afternoon. I promised Tagen a special dessert so I will take that in Sunday to him when I go to town. I got the stuff to make it with my grocery order today.

Next week looks much calmer. This week has been a whirlwind. I will enjoy a couple of days full of empty space next week. My pending list got shortened this week though so some things got done. Sometimes I feel pretty overwhelmed with all it takes to keep this house running. I don’t like waiting for someone else to do something. My style is to just get it done – now!

So far I have been able to hold myself above the neutral level on the consciousness scale even with all the chaos of the week. I am going to need to take some time to refill soon though. Lots of stuff going on in the background that has me riled up. I didn’t sleep much again last night. I am overdue for a crash and burn moment.

Grateful the tax prep crap is done, grateful for another spring day in early February, and grateful I have some empty space in front of me this evening.

Hello February. I’m grateful you rolled around and trust you have nothing but good things in store for all of us. I appreciate this 68 degree day you gave us and welcome more just like it.

I went to town this morning. I dropped my taxes off at my accountant’s office, deposited a check at the bank, picked up some HeartGuard from the Vet and got my haircut. I took my car through the car wash and was on my way to drop something off for Ellexia when Modern Air called. Justin was headed to my house so I skipped buying groceries and headed home.

Justin was waiting for me when I got home. I told him about the noise I had been hearing and let him listen to the recording I made of it. He knew immediately what the problem is – a damper motor. He figured out which one it is and they are going to order a new one. He unplugged the broken one so the noise would stop. He said my bedroom might get too hot but I can live with that more than I can the tapping noise.

While Justin was here I asked him about Michelle’s house. Ellexia’s bedroom is too cold and when someone else from Modern Air went over all they did was open a register in Michelle’s room which did not fix the problem. Justin told me her tri-level house has bad duct work and there isn’t anything they can do to fix it. He recommended they get a space heater for the room. Glad to know what needs to happen and glad to have saved another service call that wouldn’t have solved the problem. Justin from Modern Air is the best!

I didn’t make it back to Emporia to get groceries. I have to go to town tomorrow to meet with the tax program coordinator at 2:00 and will stop and get groceries after that meeting. I will also drop off Ellexia’s thingy that I didn’t get to her today.

The girls gave me 22 eggs today. They are busy down there. I went after the rooster with the ball bat just to show him who is boss. He totally ran the other way when I got ready to leave the coop. I’ll keep the bat handy in case he forgets. It sure is nice to walk down to do chores with only a sweater needed and not my snow suit. I did wear my muck boots though as it is still muddy from the snow melting. Still have a bit of snow on the ground in front of the coop and by the retaining walls in the back yard.

Went to a friend’s house for a bit for some conversation. It felt good to sit outside for a bit and visit with some friends. I had to get back home to meet someone so wasn’t able to stay very long.

I need to finish up my tax homework yet today or tomorrow morning. I have procrastinated as long as possible and I have to get it done now. Tax season starts next week and I have to be certified before I can do a return for someone. I am only on the schedule for one day a week so it won’t be much of a commitment for me this year. I told her I would be happy to fill in for others if the need arises.

I got my electric bill today. It is the highest it has been since I got solar panels. I was expecting it to be high as my furnace ran non stop for two weeks. The panels don’t generate lots of electricity when it is cloudy and they are covered in snow. Getting this bill sure makes me appreciate my solar panels, especially in the summer time.

This has felt like a hectic week. Lots of background noise happening that has me stirred up a bit. Excited to think about a major life change but not sure it will happen. I should find out in the next week or so. Fun to dream about new things headed my way.

Reminding myself to stay present to what is and to allow things to unfold as they are meant to, knowing that the universe has my back and is working things out to my best and highest good.

Grateful for good friends to meet up with, grateful for new possibilities and grateful for a haircut today.

Good bye January. Can’t say I am sorry you are leaving us. It was a brutal month for me on several fronts. Looking forward to a fresh month tomorrow.

A friend came over this morning and we worked on her Advanced Directives. It was a fun session for me and I think it went well. She is going to do some homework and then we will meet up again for another session. It is a lot to take in and she needs some processing time to make sure she knows what her final wishes are. Good thing they can be changed at a later date without much fuss if that becomes needed. It felt good to be in service today.

Someone came over this afternoon with a proposal for me. If we can come to terms, it will cause me to make a major life change. Not sure how close we are to making a deal. Both sides have some homework to do and get some more information so each can make the right decision for them. We will visit again soon and see where we are. Exciting to think of the possibilities but I keep grounding myself knowing this may not happen.

Tomorrow I am going to Emporia to take care of several things. I have a haircut at 10:45 and that will be my first stop of the day. The furnace repair guy is to come tomorrow so hoping he shows up before I have to leave for town. I really want to be here when he is here so I can explain what is going on with the banging noise. It doesn’t happen all the time and with my luck it won’t happen when he is here. I did make a video of it so he can hear it in case it doesn’t bang while he is here.

We had another beautiful spring-like day on the prairie again. We reached the high 60’s again. I was out walking in the yard this afternoon and I didn’t need a coat on. Sure is muddy though. I still have some snow that hasn’t completely melted although it is dissolving more every day. Sure doesn’t feel like late January with temperatures like this.

Did some house cleaning this afternoon. I still have lots more to do but got some of it done today. I’m waiting to do the floors until it isn’t so muddy out. I seem to be tracking in and adding to the mess daily. I haven’t let the dogs back in so they have stopped adding to it. Sophia was begging me to let her come in this afternoon but I held firm and said no. I’m going to try to break that habit sooner rather than later.

Tomorrow after I get back from town I have to finish up my tax homework. I need to schedule a meeting with the coordinator and get that project wrapped up. I’m so grateful doing taxes is much easier than the prep work to get to that point. Still don’t know when I start doing them but I guess I will find out sooner or later.

I think I get to stay home Friday unless I have to go meet with the tax prep coordination. Saturday and Sunday I have Celebration of Life Services to go to. Luckily next week looks pretty empty.

Doing my best to stay present with what is tonight. It is easy for me to get ahead of myself and then set myself up for a major disappointment if things don’t work out how I hope they will. I have had several lessons on trusting the Universe to work things out in my best and highest favor and I am leaning on that tonight. I don’t have to know what that is in this moment.

Grateful to have been in service today talking about Advanced Directives, grateful the house is fairly clean, and grateful for another spring like day on the prairie.

I am so ready for January to be over. One more day! Trusting February will bring better luck to me and will be a smoother path. January was a huge challenge for me on several fronts.

I have worked on my tax homework a bit today. Got through one problem but have a mistake somewhere as one of my answers isn’t listed in the multiple choice answers the book has. The second problem has me totally lost and confused. I will do the other problems and then I will have to get help with this one. It is a situation where we will not be doing anyone’s taxes that are like this. Still don’t understand why they test us over situations we won’t see.

The rooster tried to come after me today when I was taking care of the girls. I kept the empty water bucket between me and him and he finally stomped off to the other side of the coop. I’m going to take a ball bat down there and leave it in the coop so I can go after the bastard if he does that again.

I called the heating guy to come out and see if he can discover why there is a banging noise in the furnace duct work. It seems to be moving around and comes from different places. Sometimes I think there are spirits that live in this house and mess with me. We shall see what he finds. I requested the only repair guy that I trust – Justin. He can solve problems no one else can. He is to come either Wednesday afternoon or sometime on Thursday.

I got the garage cleared of trash and the trash taken down to the curb. Kathy had taken some down last week after we missed two weeks of taking it down. Still had a pile of trash that needed bagged up and the area around it cleaned up. Feels so good to have that cleaned up and gone. I will need to dump recycling and then the garage will be back to normal.

Had someone contact me today out of the blue and is coming to talk to me tomorrow. If I decide to do what they are asking my life will turn upside down for a bit. Not sure that will happen but I can’t look away and not entertain the possibility of a big change. I’ll see how tomorrow goes and go from there.

The funds for the windows got deposited into my account overnight. What a relief that is! I had stretched myself too thin financially for a while and was uncomfortable with the hole I had gotten into. Grateful to be out of that hole for a bit. Trusting the rest of the hail damage will proceed as planned without any more unexpected financial issues. Enough already!

I have a friend coming over tomorrow so we can work on her advanced directives. That will be a fun morning for me. I’m grateful to be able to be in service to others and help them through this process.

Thursday morning I have to go to Emporia for a haircut, a Chiropractor visit, drop my taxes off to my accountant and get some groceries. I also need to go by the Vet’s office and get some HeartGuard as I forgot that last time I was there. Both Saturday and Sunday I have Celebration of Life Services to go to. Friday I should be able to stay home and have a quiet day.

Next week I have a routine doctor’s appointment on Wednesday and I am hosting a Final Wishes Workshop on Saturday/. This week will be my last free week before I start doing taxes and exercising. I will pay special attention to my empty space that week and soak it in as I won’t have near as much of that starting the following week.

This has been another spring like day on the prairie. It reached 60 today with bright blue skies and little wind. I had a coat on doing the chicken chores and it was too heavy for me. We are to stay like this for the next couple of days. It is giving me a bad case of spring fever.

We are going to have four days in a row of temperatures staying above 40 all day and night. Too bad two of those are on the weekend and the EFIS guy won’t work then. Next week we are going down to the low 50’s for the high and the high 30’s for the low.

The window guys came this morning and took the plastic off the two windows they installed yesterday. They didn’t come to the door to let me know they were here. What a waste of manpower that they had to send them back just for that.

Sitting here thinking of the way the Universe works. I am learning very slowly to trust it more and know that it has my back in all ways. I have always liked to know the next three steps ahead of me and what my options are but am learning it isn’t always in my best interest for me to know that. Doing my best to learn how to stay present with what is and allow that to be enough.

Grateful the trash is out of the garage at long last, grateful the rooster didn’t get me today, grateful for this beautiful spring like day on the prairie, and grateful for possibilities that lay ahead of me.

This has been a weird day of sorts. I knew the window guys were coming this morning but not sure when. I woke up a little before 8:00 and decided I better get up and get ready in case they showed up early. I didn’t sleep well last night and was still tired but I got up.

The guys didn’t show up until after 9:15. They came and installed the remaining two windows. I had to go to Cottonwood Falls to get my oil changed while they were here but they were still here when I got home. I was tired so decided to get away from their mess and noise and go lay down. I fell asleep and when I got up they were gone. They kinda cleaned up their mess but they forgot to take the plastic off the windows. The two windows they installed today are the real tall ones in the hallway. There is no way I am going to climb on the roof and get to them to take the plastic off. I sent a text to the manager and told them someone is going to have to make a special trip from Manhattan to take care of that. I haven’t heard back from him yet. Sometimes I scratch my head at the things people do and wonder how they let something like that slip.

I got an email from the insurance adjuster and he has requested the remainder of the funds to pay for the windows. I will be getting an email later today or tomorrow that I will respond to and then the funds will be processed. It took him four weeks to get that to me. Grateful he honored his word when I got hold of him last week and he got it to me today.

Took care of the chickens. They seemed happier with their fresh linens, or maybe it was just my nose that was happier when I opened their coop door and didn’t get assaulted with a foul odor. Either way, it was much more fun doing chores today.

Dieker Oil did a great job changing my oil. It is always nice driving off in a clean car. They sure make getting my oil changed a pleasant experience and I know my car is in good hands each and every time I go there.

It has warmed up to 58 today! Spring like day on the prairie. I had a coat on to do the chickens and almost didn’t need it. The wind is even calm today. I could take days like this the whole month of February.

I ended up making spaghetti and meat balls for Tagen and Lily last night. It amazes me how much that kid can eat. We had a big lunch and by 5:30 he was hungry again. I sent the leftovers home with him. I did six loads of dishes yesterday and finished them up today. It was work but a lot of fun to fix two meals for Tagen and Lily yesterday.

Plan on working on my AARP tax homework later this afternoon. I think I have brain power to do it today. If not, I am free all day tomorrow and will get it finished up then. This has been one of those days where I don’t feel my head and body are flowing as one.

Grateful I have a free day at home tomorrow. I have a small list of things that I need to get done around here and that will give me the time to take care of things. I’m grateful I can get all the trash down to the curb tomorrow. Kathy took a wheelbarrow full of it last week but there is still some carried over from when we couldn’t get it down to the curb for two weeks. It will be good to get the garage cleaned up a bit. I have someone coming over Wednesday morning for end of life planning and need to go to town Thursday for a haircut, to go to the Chiropractor and to drop off my 2023 income taxes to my accountant. I’ll also pick up some groceries Thursday and take care of another errand or two. It will be good to be able to stay home the next two days before that.

It felt good to get the window replacement project crossed off my pending list today. Next big project is the EFIS repair. That should happen in March. After that I can get the guttering replaced and the deck painted and then the hail damage project from last August will be completed. Dang, that turned into a bigger project and has taken longer than I would have expected. Grateful projects like that don’t happen too often. I’m not good with projects that depend on others to do something before the next thing can happen.

Trusting that February will be an easier month for me than January was. It felt like in January I kept hitting pothole after pothole and kept having to put out fires around here. I survived it all and am trusting that I will be able to catch a break soon and get some smoother sailing weather.

Grateful the window project is complete, grateful for fresh oil in the clean car, and grateful for the time I got to spend with Lily and Tagen yesterday.

Tagen and Lily came out for lunch. Jason and Kathy joined us in eating chicken strips, green beans and macaroni and cheese. After lunch Tagen and I went down to the chicken coop. We worked for about 25 minutes and it was game time so took a break to watch the first half. We went down at half time and finished up the job.

We had six wheelbarrows full of smelly, wet straw. It was very heavy as it had gotten wet. Tagen struggled to lift it up. I’m not sure how long it would have taken me if I had tried to do the whole job. What a relief it is to have that job done. As we left the girls were inside rearranging the straw to their liking. I will add a touch more straw tomorrow after they get this first layer packed down a bit. We shouldn’t have to clean it out again until spring.

Tagen and Lily are going to stay and watch the second game of the day today and then come out on Super Bowl Sunday to watch the game. Tagen can’t get it at his house. Since they are staying to watch the game this evening, I’ll have to come up with something for dinner for them.

I baked a double batch of chocolate chip cookies for them this morning. I was going to make Tagen’s favorite dessert but I didn’t have any Cool Whip. He asked me if I could make it this afternoon. I told him next time I go to town I will get some and make him a pan and bring it to him. He earned it today.

I got notice from my on-line bank that the tax form I need to complete my taxes is ready to be printed. I will get that printed off and then get my tax package to my accountant. She rarely gets to them before March but at least she has them if she gets a chance to work on them before that. It always feels good to hand them off. I didn’t have a good profit year with the rentals so am not expecting to have to pay taxes this year. I was hoping to have gotten one of the rental houses sold last year as I knew it would have been a good tax year to have that happened but it didn’t work out that way. What is that saying – Life is what happens when you are busy making plans.

The window guys are coming tomorrow to install the last two windows. I have to take my car in at 10:00 to get the oil changed. I’m hoping tomorrow afternoon I can spend some time working on my tax homework. I need to get at that and get the tests taken later this week. Not sure when we start doing taxes but I know it is coming up soon.

The sound coming from the furnace room has stopped for the most part. It hammered for about ten minutes last night and finally stopped, started again but only went for a couple of minutes, stopped again and then did two more taps and hasn’t gone again. I heard the same sound but not as loud coming from a different place this morning but it only went for a few taps and stopped. Sure hope that is the end of that. Curious minds want to know what was causing the sound and if something needs to be done.

I do need to call the heater guys that I had go to Michelle’s house a week ago. They didn’t fix the problem with Ellexia’s room being so cold. I was really disappointed in them when I got the bill and read that all they did was open a register. We had tried that and that wasn’t the problem. Wonder what they will say and do.

Slowly but surely my pending list of things to get done and follow up on is getting smaller. I have had a run of issues to deal with and it feels good to be working my way through most of it. Still need to get the siding of the house repaired and the guttering replaced but that has to wait for warmer weather. It sure will be a relief when all the hail damage is taken care of. I have been a bit overwhelmed lately with all the issues I have had to deal with. It is time to turn the corner and change my luck around here.

We reached the low to mid 50’s on the prairie today. The snow is really melting and we have enjoyed every minute of the sunshine today.. The path down to the chicken coop is wet and muddy. I was surprised I didn’t have trouble with the wheelbarrow picking up lots of mud in the coop. We have a chance for some light snow overnight but then it is to warm up again tomorrow. I am getting a bad case of spring fever. This has been a brutal winter so far and February can often add a punch. At least February is a short month and March will be here before I know it.

Grateful for Tagen’s help today, grateful the chickens coop smells better, and grateful for the sunshine today.

I don’t think I found more than two hours of sleep last night. It was a long night! Sure wish I could figure out what causes nights like that and what to do about it. Sleep is not something that comes easy to me.

Kathy and I went to Emporia a little after noon today to attend a Celebration of Life service. The service was beautifully done. We both wondered on the way home how people that have such a difficult beginning in life can turn into one of the most caring, loving people you would ever want to meet. What an act of courage that takes!

Ellexia texted me last night and asked if I still have a salt lamp that she could have. I felt like a hip grandma when I was able to tell her yes. Not every grandma has a salt lamp!

There is a rhythmic pounding sound that is happening in the house. It is coming from the aluminum pipe above the furnace. It doesn’t happen every time the furnace turns on but some times. Sometimes it keeps hammering even when the furnace has turned off. It sounds like water dripping on an aluminum pipe or else someone taking a hammer to it. It is very rhythmic. Lasts for 30 seconds to a minute. There is some sort of wire box hanging from the pipe with a wire from it leading to the furnace. I can’t find any evidence of water dripping somewhere it doesn’t belong. Anyone have any ideas what is going on and how to make it stop hammering? I am going to have to call the heater guy Monday if I can’t make it stop.

It felt dang cold when I went down to take care of the chickens today. Some of them were huddled together on the roosting bars inside the coop. They gave me 20 eggs today for my troubles.

We had a light coating of ice this morning that thankfully had melted off by the time I went to town. Come on warmer weather. I am ready for some 40’s and lower 50’s next week. Sure hope it warms up a bit tomorrow so Tagen and Jason can get the chicken coop cleaned out for me.

I was talking to Jason last night about the exercise class and was telling him the four different options that I could be placed in. Before I told him which class I was in, he said I hope you got put in the core class. Hmmmm….. there is obviously something to this class that I don’t understand. Trusting it is the one that will be most helpful to me.

Still haven’t gotten to my tax problems. I was going to work on them this afternoon but without much sleep last night I’m not sure that is a good idea. I may possibly get to them in the morning, if I get sleep tonight.

Trying to decide if I should go take a nap or just wait another couple of hours and go to bed early. I am starting to feel very sleep deprived.

I am beginning to realize my life is going to get busy in the next two weeks and stay that way for a bit. Between doing taxes several days a week and going to the gym three days a week I am going to be out and about much more than I have been for a long time. Trusting I am ready for that and can handle it all. It will be a good test for me to see if I can maintain my consciousness level at or above neutral for days at a time even when I don’t have stay at home days.

Grateful for the love that was shared at the Celebration of Life Service today, grateful I had a salt lamp for Ellexia and she can consider me a cool G, and grateful I can go to bed when ever I chose to today.

No pain! Yay! My tooth is not hurting at all today. I can eat and chew whatever I want and no pain! I trust this will continue and the root canal worked.

I went to Emporia around 3:00 this afternoon. Made a stop at Bluestem to get some S hooks to hang up the chicken feeder, dog food, heat lamp base and lamps and some cottonseed hulls for the nesting boxes in the chicken coop. They had the type of dog food I needed so I got three bags. I am so grateful they load the heavy stuff into the car from the back dock for me. I can easily unload them but struggle to load them.

Went through the car wash on my way downtown to go to the Chiropractor. V Road is so muddy I’m not sure it does much good but the car looks nice while I am in town at least.

Had to wait about 10 minutes at the Chiropractor. He did his thing on me and then I headed to the coordinator of the tax program’s house to pick up some testing material I needed. I got that picked up and then headed to Walmart to pickup my grocery order.

I had gotten a text from Walmart around 2:00 letting me know the stock levels of the dog food I had ordered was low and ask what I might want to substitute for it. I chose no substitutions and picked some up from Bluestem. They had it in stock so now I have 5 bags of dog food. That will last a month or so. Everything else I ordered was in stock so I was good to go home.

Came home and got things unloaded and the chicken chores done. The girls gave me 20 eggs today. I’m grateful I changed into my muck boots as it is one icky, muddy mess both in the coop and on the path down. One of the things I picked up at Bluestem was some S hooks. I use them to hang the feeder on a chain that hangs down. The feeder doesn’t work well unless it is hanging. The chickens sometimes have a party and get wild and knock the feeder off the S hooks. The hook then gets covered in the muck in the pen. I got a couple extras to have on hand. When I went to hang them up in the feed door of the coop, I discovered I still had one. I thought I had looked a couple days ago for it but hadn’t seen it. Have plenty of them now!

I’m fixing Jason a tuna noodle casserole for his dinner tonight. Good comfort food for a rainy, icky day.

Tomorrow I am going to a Celebration of Life service at 1:00 for a dear friend’s husband. I don’t think I have anything else I need to do in Emporia tomorrow. I took care of all my errands today.

The KU Research program called today and got me scheduled for my first exercise class and orientation for February 12. I got put into the one class I was hoping not to be put into. This class is a core strengthening class that uses stretch bands, yoga, etc. I wanted to be in either the strength class or conditioning class or the class that combined those two.

I asked the lady that called today if I can do strength and conditioning on my own. She gave me an interesting answer. Their preference is no but I can continue whatever I have been doing. However, she said if I take off the Fitbit they will never know about it. Don’t ask – don’t tell! I’ll see what happens. I really want to get fit enough to do a walking trip later this year or next year and I’m not sure core strength will do it for me.

The Universe works in mysterious ways and I know it has my back so evidently the class I was put into is the class that will benefit me the most. She said the class helps with fall prevention and balance. Haven’t had an issue with either. The class may do more for me than I think it will.

The research program is trying to determine if it makes a difference what type of exercise people do to help prevent the onset of Alzheimer’s. They randomly put you in one of four groups – one is core strength, one is conditioning, one is strength training and one is a combination of conditioning and strength. I don’t want to throw off their results but I also don’t want to wait a year before I start conditioning training. Maybe core training will provide what I need enough to do a hard walk in the mountains. We shall see.

At least now I have a start date for the exercise program. It has taken me months to get to this point. I think I had my first interview back in July last year. Feels good to have gotten to this point and I trust this program will have some good results for me.

I sent an email to my insurance adjuster asking him if he was OK. I had sent him the invoice for the windows on January 5 and a follow-up email ten days later and hadn’t heard from him. He responded today that he had gotten swamped with people that had frozen pipe water damage and he promised to get me some money the first of the week. We shall see if he does so. At least I heard back from him this time.

If weather permits the window guys are coming Monday to install the last two windows. It will be good to have that project done. The weather strip they ordered for the window that had snow blow in is still not here but they said they would come install it another day.

I have to take my car in to get the oil changed Monday morning. It is overdue for an oil change. Wednesday a friend is coming over to do her advanced directives. I’m looking forward to that session. Thursday I am getting my hair cut and going to the Chiropractor. Next Saturday I have another Celebration of Life Service to go to as well as one on Sunday afternoon. Sounds like it is going to be a busy week.

It might be a good thing I am having to get out several days next week. That will help ease me into getting out more when I started exercising and doing taxes. Not sure when the tax thing starts and I’m not sure what days and evening that happens. Good thing I am retired and it doesn’t matter!

I rescheduled the Advanced Directives workshop that I had to cancel a week or so ago due to icy weather. The new one is scheduled for February 10. Trusting the weather will cooperate this time and I can hold it as scheduled. The cost is $25 and will give you a good start on completing the forms required to document your final wishes. I am a notary so can take care of that if you get that far.

Feel like I move up a step or two on the consciousness ladder today. It is amazing how much easier things are when you are pain free. Even going to town didn’t bring me down today.

Grateful I am pain free today, grateful the research program gave me a start date today, and grateful I got my errands taken care of today.

I had a great deal of difficulty finding sleep last night. Don’t think I slept for more than three hours all night. I must have been keyed up from the trauma of getting the root canal done yesterday and the drive home. Makes for a long day when I can’t sleep.

I called the coordinator of the meeting I was to go to tonight and told her I wasn’t going to be able to make it. I need a day at home to recover and regroup. I’ve had to be gone everyday this week and have reached my people limit for a bit. I was going to go to town today and get some errands taken care of but just don’t have it in me to do so.

The pain is much better today, although this afternoon it is starting to ramp up a bit. The dentist told me 24 hours after is when things can ramp up again so he cautioned me to take ibuprofen even though I didn’t think I needed it today. It certainly is not near the pain I had before. This is more like soreness from them irritating the gum and jaw during the procedure. I can handle this!

I will have to go to town tomorrow to go to the Chiropractor and pick up some groceries. I still need dog food and a heat lamp base and bulb. I’m sure that after I take a day of rest today, I will be able to go to town tomorrow and get those things taken care of.

I still need to do some homework for the class that I was to go to tonight. Just haven’t felt up to doing it yet. When I go to town tomorrow I will stop and pick up the additional information I need to do yet another set of problems. When I get both sets of problems done, I will call the coordinator and go meet with her again and finish up the testing.

I did manage to call and get my haircut and oil change scheduled. At least that makes me feel like I got something done today. I am having a pretty low energy type of day.

We got some rain overnight and this morning. It will be a muck boot type of day to walk down to the chicken coop later. Things are really melting and the ground is still mostly frozen so the water isn’t being absorbed well. Snow is still pretty deep in places and where it has melted it is very muddy and slick.

I took a break to eat lunch. Decided to get the chores over with since I was up and going. Brought up 22 eggs from the girls today. I only have 25 hens so they are really laying right now. I have an abundance of eggs. If you need some, let me know. They are $3 a dozen. I’m coming to town tomorrow and could deliver if you would like. The coop is one wet and smelly mess right now. Tagen is coming out Sunday to help me clean it out. It was slippery walking down to the coop today due to the standing water. At least the snow drifts are compacting and are easier to walk through. I can almost walk my normal route to the coop now.

I got the five sacks of chicken feed unloaded from my car now that I can park in the garage. Slowly things are starting to return to pre snow drift days around here. Trusting that my run on emergency situations around here is over and I won’t have anymore to deal with for a bit. I’m tapped out of energy to deal with any more.

I set my alarm for 5:20 this afternoon. My Grandfather clock stopped sometime this week at 5:20 and I want to get it restarted. I hope I don’t forget why I set my alarm – that has happened before! Getting old sucks sometimes. Someone yesterday told me that after 50 you patch and repair the rest of your days. There is a lot of truth to that!

I am holding on to the neutral level today. Not sure I am much above it but that is better than being below it. It has been a rough couple of weeks around here and I am lucky to be at neutral.

Grateful for a mostly pain free day today, grateful for a day at home, and grateful for the sleep I will get tonight.

Just got home from KC. It is after 8:00. It has been a long day. The drive to KC was OK but it was foggy or light rain most of the way and the fog got denser as I got closer to KC. Hit traffic between Olathe and I435. I had left about 20 minutes early and got there about 5 minutes early.

The root canal went well. I liked the dentist and his assistant. They were very aware of my reaction during the whole procedure and kept checking in with me to make sure I was handling everything.

He had to test the life of the nerves in the tooth with a cold liquid of some sort. I about shot out of the chair when he hit the hot spot.

My tooth had a weird root structure. He said he had never seen one like it before. He had to do something a bit different to make sure it was cleaned out correctly. Not sure I understand what was different but he tried to explain it to me. He gives it an 80% chance of healing and survival. 20% chance of needing to have the tooth pulled. Most procedures he does have a 95% chance of doing well.

It took him about 30 minutes longer than expected to do the procedure due to the weird root structure of my tooth. At one point he had to add some numbing medication but otherwise it was good. He recommended I continue taking 3 – 4 Ibuprofen every four hours for at least the next 24 hours. He said the pain might be worse before it gets better. If it isn’t better by next Monday I will have to go back to see him.

The drive home was long. I came out of the office feeling a bit disoriented. It was very foggy and I had never been to this office before and had no idea where I was at. Thank heavens for GPS. Managed to find my way out of the parking lot and headed home. The fog was really dense for the first half of the trip. The fog gradually lifted and then I drove through a light to moderate rain. When I hit the Chase County line it was dry and clear.

When I got home I was able to pull into the garage! Thanks Jaque and Mike for your efforts yesterday to make that happen. It was a sweet way to end a long day.

I have a meeting to go to tomorrow night but we shall see what happens. If I am in lots of pain tomorrow I won’t be able to go. I have some homework to do before the meeting. Fingers crossed I will feel like doing it tomorrow morning. Didn’t feel like I could do it this morning.

Once I know the pain is under control and all is well I need to call and get a hair cut and oil change on my calendar. I have hesitated to book those before I knew what was happening with the tooth. Both are overdue and badly needed. I will need to get some dog food next time I go to town. Need to remember to take the chicken feed I got earlier this week out of my car now that I can park in the garage again.

Need to find something rather soft to eat for dinner. The numbness is wearing off and it feels almost safe to eat now. It has been several days since I have been able to eat much and I am hungry! Not sure what I have to eat but I will find something soon.

When I got home the dogs followed me inside. They seem to want to become house dogs now. Not sure how long I will be able to stand that though. It is to warm up next week and maybe they will decide to go back outside where they belong.

Four trips to KC in four weeks is too many! I haven’t been to KC that often for a long time. Three of the four trips were not fun trips. Hoping I won’t have to go back for a bit now.

Need to call the window installers tomorrow and let them know the snow has melted off the roof of the house. They need to come install the last two windows. Next week looks like it will be a good week for them to come finish up that job.

I’m tired tonight. I think I will find something to eat and go to bed early. The trip to KC wore me out today. Sure have my fingers and toes crossed that the recovery will go smoothly and this little episode is behind me now.

Grateful for a compassionate dentist and assistant today, grateful for a safe trip to and from KC, and grateful to park in the garage tonight.

Sitting here contemplating the mystery of the universe. There has been a series of events that have transpired over the last two weeks that has me sitting in wonder in the ways the universe works.

This all started back when my driveway got blown shut with snow. I got stuck and my dear neighbors pulled me out. I have been parking in the barn ever since. I had some high school boys dig out the driveway the next day. I hadn’t had a reason to get out so my car was left parked in the barn.

Jason came home the night the high school boys had cleared the driveway and needed to get into the garage to unload his car. Since he could get into the garage, it made it easy for him to unload his car.

The next day we had high winds again after Jason left for work. The driveway blew shut again and so we have been parking in the barn since. I was lucky I had left my car in the barn that day and Jason had gotten out before the wind picked up.

I have a tooth that has been hurting for the last four days. I got an emergency dental appointment this morning for noon. They called me around 9:30 to see if I could come in at 11:30. Around 10:45 I got real anxious and knew I needed to leave early for town. I got things ready and went down to the barn to get in my car.

When I walked in the barn I could hear water running. Both Kathy and Jason had been in the barn this morning to get their cars and neither one had heard any water running. I thought the water to the barn was turned off. I found the water pump in the barn furnace room had broke open and water was pouring onto the floor. Luckily there is a floor drain in that room. I checked the turn off valve above the pump and it was off. I went back up to the house to make sure the water to the barn was turned off – it was.

I called the plumber and he was available to head my way. I headed to Emporia and got to the dentist right on time! While I was in town, the plumber texted me to tell me he got it turned off and all is well.

Sitting here shaking my head at the series of things that had to have happened so I could be in the barn to hear the water running. I rarely go into the barn and would not have discovered a water leak for a long time but since the driveway was blown close, I had to go into the barn to get my car. I had time to deal with the water emergency since I had left early. The plumber was able to come out immediately. Wow! It really felt like someone had my back this morning.

I have to have a possible root canal done in Lenexa either later today or tomorrow. I am waiting on a call from their office to let me know when to come. There is a possibility that they won’t be able to do one and if not, I will have to have the tooth pulled by the oral surgeon in Emporia.

My neighbors showed up again and he is using his pickup to knock down a path through the snow covered part of the driveway. I am being taken care of today by the universe with a little help from some angels on earth! Thanks Mike and Jaque!

My dentist told me to take 4 ibuprofen every four hours until I can get the tooth taken care of. She said that was a prescription size dose and not to do that for long but it wouldn’t hurt for the next day or two. Trusting the office in Lenexa will call me soon and get me set up for either later today or tomorrow. I’m getting hungry as it has been a challenge to eat.

I will remember this day for a long time. I love noticing the synchronicities that happen when you least expect them to. It reminds me that there is a greater level of things going on around me than my little brain can wrap itself around. Even with two emergencies happening today I really feel guided and protected and taken care of by a greater force.

Grateful for neighbors that help me out over and over, grateful I caught the water leak quickly and it got resolved, and grateful I was able to get to a dentist today and a solution to the pain is on it’s way.

I called the dentist that had filled a tooth for me several years ago. They are going to see me tomorrow at noon. The dentist called in a prescription for an antibiotic for me to get started on. Crossing my fingers the antibiotic doesn’t activate my C-Diff! Grateful they gave me an appointment that soon. Not sure what they will be doing tomorrow as I’m not sure what the problem is. They told me they would need to take X-Rays at a cost of $99. Yikes! Now I remember why I go to the Vo-Tech dental program.

I went to town around noon. Stopped at Walmart to pick up my prescription and then took Tagen’s birthday present to him. I got the peanut butter balls made during the game last night. I got lucky and got to see Tagen for a bit. He hadn’t left for school yet. Made my day to get to see him!

Went by my property manager’s house and picked up the rental house information so I can finish up getting my taxes ready. Had a nice conversation with him. I don’t get a chance to see him often enough.

Went to a meeting on doing taxes. I managed to pass two of the four tests I need to take. Have another test almost done and will need to do some homework for the rest of the third test. In order to take the fourth test I need a book that the coordinator didn’t have available so will need to pick that up tomorrow while I am in town. The coordinator had to call a helper to come over to help figure out how to get me into the system. The system uses four different user names and passwords to enter four different systems. Wonder if they could make it more complicated if they tried? One of the passwords has to be 15 letters, numbers and/or characters long. High security for sure!

Good thing taking and passing the tests is the hardest part of doing taxes. Still not sure why they test us on things we won’t see during the actual tax season.

When I got home, Kathy was getting ready to do the chickens for me. I’m glad I came home when I did as the chicken feed is still in my car. I don’t want to unload it all into the barn and then have to load it back up again to move it to the house. Grateful she did chores for me today. The girls gave her 18 eggs today for her walk down to them.

I found the package that was MIA. It was in the mailbox which is where I suspected it might be. Had a full box of mail as I hadn’t picked mail up since Thursday.

I put some green chicken in the crock pot before I left this morning. I had forgotten about it and was grateful for it when I got home as I didn’t stop for lunch while I was in town. I can barely eat right now but the chicken was nice and tender and I was able to get it down.

Things have melted a bit today although the temperature is only 30. There is a dense fog rolling in. We had some ice fall overnight and the schools were on a two-hour delayed start this morning. By the time I went to town, the roads were all clear and the sidewalks were starting to melt. Where you have to walk on top of piled snow was a bit treacherous though as the ice froze over the snow. The only dangerous part of going to town was walking down to the barn.

We have a good chance for more wintery mix this evening and overnight and into tomorrow. It is to warm up even more tomorrow so hoping things will be good to go by the time I have to go to town for my noon dental appointment.

The dogs spent the night inside. They didn’t want to go out last night when I went to bed. They were good and didn’t wake me up during the night. It was warmer last night than it has been so not sure why they wanted to stay in.

I have to go to town tomorrow to go to the dentist and then again on Thursday to go to another tax meeting. Saturday I have a Celebration of Life Service to go to. I’m kinda missing my nine day stretch of staying home. So far the following week looks like I have more empty space but we shall see. Once I start the exercise program I will have to go to town three, four or five days a week for that. Maybe this is the universe’s way of getting me used to getting out more.

This day has gone by fast since I was in town for most of it. The pain in my jaw is still there. Taking Tylenol every four hours seems to knock the worst of it down for most of the four hours. Will be ever so grateful to find out what is causing the pain and to get it taken care of.

So far today I have been able to hold my consciousness level above neutral. We shall see if I can hold it there all week long with all the trips to town.

Grateful I got a dental appointment for tomorrow, grateful I got to see Tagen today, and grateful the temperature is warmer today than it has been for several weeks.

It is 20 degrees out today. That is a 20 degree improvement in temperature. The only problem is the wind is 30 – 35 MPH so it feels like 3. It was damn cold walking down to the chickens today. Trusting the warmer temperatures will come our way this week yet.

We are to get a wintery mix of precipitation over the next couple of days. What we get will depend on the temperature. Hoping for snow or rain and not the ice that may come.

The girls gave me 20 eggs today. That is a summer day haul. I didn’t let them out today like I had hoped I would be able to. The forecast just isn’t in their favor yet. We shall see if I can tomorrow.

My jaw is still very tender. It is hard to eat. I will call around tomorrow morning and see if I can find a dentist that can see me ASAP. I have it narrowed down to one of two teeth. I still can’t close my mouth and have the top teeth touch the bottom teeth – it hurts too bad to do that. Makes chewing a bit of a challenge.

I still don’t have the peanut butter balls made. Just didn’t feel like it. May still try to get those done tonight while I am watching the Chiefs game. I’ll see if I can find some energy to do so.

The dogs have been in and out all day. Kathy told me they saw her light come on this morning at 5:00 and were at her back door getting her attention so she would let them in. This new habit they have learned may be hard to break when the temperature warms up enough they don’t need to come in. I gave Roxy the bone from the pot roast I fixed yesterday. She sure enjoyed chewing on it for an hour or so.

Still hoping I can get to town tomorrow to get some things taken care of. I will have to change plans if we get ice in the morning. Nothing I have to do is worth the risk of driving on ice. I hate driving on ice and will avoid it if at all possible. I will have to go to town to see a dentist though if I can find one that can take me tomorrow or the next day.

Being in pain sure changes one’s perspective on life. It is hard to focus on much of anything else but the pain. I have been taking lots of Tylenol and that seems to knock off the rough edge but the pain comes back before it is time to take more. I have a lot of respect and admiration for those that live with chronic pain all the time. I’m not sure how they do that.

Have several phone calls to make tomorrow. Hoping it will be a good day for me to get those done. Somedays I can make calls and other days I just can’t make myself do it. Not sure why that is but I have learned to honor it and deal with it. Things will get done – sooner or later.

There is a full moon Thursday night. I can already feel the energy of it. Trusting that once this moon appears, things will soften a bit for me. This last couple of weeks has felt intense at times. I’m ready for things to soften and to be able to catch a break.

Feeling a bit numb and like I am barely holding on. Pain does distort things and I’m sure the effects of taking so much Tylenol is adding to that. It reminds me to be grateful for my good health and not to take it for granted.

Grateful for 20 eggs from the girls today, grateful for the warm up in temperatures, and grateful that this pain will pass.

I am feeling better today. Ran a 101 temperature for a bit last night. Luckily the effects of the vaccine are over with today and I am back up and running.

My jaw is still sore. It has been hard to fully close my mouth today to eat and chew. Not sure what is going on. If it doesn’t get better by Monday I will go in and have it looked at. The pain is less today unless I try to close my mouth.

Found a dead chicken when I went down today. Not surprised – with this cold weather I have been surprised I haven’t lost one before this. The girls gave me 16 eggs today. Guess they don’t have anything better to do than lay eggs. I bet they will be glad to get outside tomorrow if it warms up a bit.

It was -19 again this morning on the prairie. It has warmed up to 0 so far today. Tomorrow we are to get in the 20’s. Heat wave!!! I am so ready for warmer temperatures.

UPS delivered a package yesterday but I haven’t found it yet. It might be in the mailbox. I haven’t driven down to check. I checked all the doors, in the garage and in the barn. Hoping it will turn up. Luckily what is in the package isn’t weather sensitive.

Did some housecleaning this morning. The house had gotten a bit cluttered and I got things picked up and put away. Did some vacuuming and other cleaning. I always feel better when my house is straightened up.

Grateful the sun is shining this afternoon. Makes it feel warmer than it is. Sophia came in for an afternoon nap but Roxy is laying outside in the sun. They like this cold weather although they seem to be enjoying coming in the house for morning and afternoon naps.

I have a pot roast with potatoes and carrots cooking in the crock pot today. It sure makes the house smell good. Not sure I can chew it to eat some but will see what happens.

No plans for tomorrow except for watching the Chiefs game in the evening. Monday I have to go to Emporia for a meeting at 2:00 and have a list of errands to take care of while I am in town. Hoping this week the weather will be good enough for me to get some overdue things taken care of.

The next couple of weekends I have three Celebration of Life Ceremonies to attend. All were people that were younger than I am. I wish I had a magic wand and could give each of the families some peace and comfort. Grieving is hard work and is a process each has to find their own way through.

I need to make some peanut butter balls to take to Tagen as part of his birthday present. I’ll probably do that tomorrow and then take them to town Monday when I go.

Trusting with the warmer weather coming this way, I will find some motivation to get some things done. I haven’t done much lately as I have been stuck at home for the most part. Hoping the KU program will get going and get me started with the exercise program. This has been a long process to get this far and still not sure when I get to actually start the program.

I am starting to get a bit of spring fever. Enough with the snow and cold. Two more months before Spring Equinox! I am ready for it now!

Grateful the effects of the vaccine appear to have worn off, grateful for the warm up that is coming, and grateful for the sunshine today.

Happy 18th birthday to Tagen. He has grown into a fine young man. Polite, animal lover, sports lover and kind. It has been an absolute joy watching him grow up. Young men like Tagen give me so much hope for the future.

I haven’t had too much of a reaction to the shingles vaccine this time. Running a low grade temperature and a bit tired. My jaw started hurting again late morning so laid down on a heat pad. I had tried a heat pad last night and it seemed to have helped. I fell asleep and slept for three hours. Feel a bit achy but not bad. My tummy has felt a bit unsettled today. Trusting this is all the reaction I will have and by tomorrow it will be gone. I read the reaction can go on for about three days – we shall see what happens. My body didn’t read the rule book on how to do these things and tends to do its own thing.

Went down to take care of the chickens. It wasn’t bad walking down but walking into the light wind coming up was cold. I got their heat lamp working. I can’t get their main door to latch. Too much frozen stuff around it. I had trouble pulling it open so trusting it will stay closed. This bitter cold is to last one more day and then it starts to warm up on Sunday.

It was -10 when I got up this morning. It has climbed up to -1 so far today. The forecast is still calling for 7 as the high but I sure wouldn’t take that bet. It is to be -5 overnight and only 12 tomorrow.

No plans for the weekend. I left it open in case I had a reaction and needed some recovery time. I’ll watch the game Sunday if I remember to. Have a pot roast to put in the crock pot for tomorrow or Sunday.

Monday I have to go to Emporia to meet with someone in the afternoon. Have some errands to take care of while I am in town. Need to call and get a hair cut appointment for one day next week. I also need to get my car in for an oil change. So far the forecast is calling for temperatures to be above freezing most of the week so it will be a good week to get caught up on those things. We may get some rain but we shall see if that happens.

Hoping with the warmer temperatures coming that I can get to park in my garage again. We had a 51.3 MPH wind gust last night that blew snow all over again. Glad I didn’t pay to have the driveway shoveled out only to have had it blown close again. I’ve never had my driveway blown closed before and hope it never happens again. I miss my garage! Grateful I have a big barn that can hold all three vehicles and keep the snow and ice off of them.

The good news is January is almost over and February is a short month. March and spring will be here soon!

Hoping I can get my trash to the curb on Tuesday. It is starting to pile up as I haven’t taken it down the last two weeks. I couldn’t figure out a way to get it through the snow drifts to the curb without carrying each individual bag. It was way too cold and dangerous to do that. At least it is frozen in the garage and doesn’t stink.

The little heater I had running in the laundry room quit. Luckily I had another one. I had gotten those heaters way back in 2016 when I was using this house as a retreat center. I think the one running now is the last one of the four I had purchased that is still working. When I go to town next week, I’ll have to see if there are any to be had in town. I couldn’t find a heat lamp base so am thinking the little space heaters are sold out too. Hopefully the last one I have will stay running and help keep the laundry room pipes from freezing.

As soon as things thaw out, I will need to bribe Tagen into coming out and help me clean out the chicken coop. The leaking water container really made a mess in it and it needs cleaned out as soon as possible. Everything is frozen to the bottom of the coop right now so will need several days of much warmer weather to thaw things out. The rooster has a few dark spots on his comb which is a sign of frost bite. Didn’t notice too many others having any that are showing now. It wouldn’t surprise me if they all don’t develop some frost bite.

The FitBit the exercise program people gave me is not working. I put it on the charger and nothing happened. I chatted with the FitBit support team last night and they had me try a couple of things and nothing worked. They are going to replace it. The email address for my account is the KU Med Center Research Department address. I sent them an email this morning telling them to expect the email with exchange information. The coordinator called me today and said they didn’t bother sending them back and that the exercise coordinator that is coming to do my orientation in Emporia sometime soon would bring me a different one. Hmmm…. Wonder why they don’t get replacements? Seems they are throwing some money away. I forget not everyone is as frugal as I am.

Feeling a bit blah today from the vaccine. It has been a good day to stay tucked inside the house and to take a good long, winter’s nap. I will give my body whatever time it needs to heal from the vaccine and spend the rest of the day and tomorrow resting. I’m grateful I have the luxury of being able to do that. I’m sure by Monday I will be ready to go again.

Grateful for the love I share with my grandson, grateful my vaccine reaction has been mild so far, and grateful it is to warm up by Sunday.

This has been an interesting day. I got to Walmart at 10:50 for my 11:00 vaccine appointment. I got checked in and sent over to the door to wait. They called back someone that had checked in after I did. I was on a tight time line and decided not to wait anymore and left at 11:20. I told the lady that checked me in I had to leave.

I took my car through the car wash and then went to the Chiropractor. I stopped and picked up a burger and then took my car to Thomson’s to have the wheel alignment done. I ate lunch while they took care of my car.

To my surprise, it only took a little over an hour to do the car. They told me it would take 2 -3 hours. I went to Bluestem to pick up dog and chicken feed. They were out of dog food but I got 6 bags of chicken feed.

Went to Walmart to get my groceries. After I paid for them I decided to check with the pharmacy to see if they could give me my vaccine. They got me right back and I didn’t have to wait. Maybe next time I will just walk in and not make an appointment!

Came home and had to make two trips from the barn to the house to carry in the groceries. Made a third trip down so I could take care of chicken chores. While I was down at the barn this time, I shoveled a bit of the melting ice off the barn pad so it isn’t as slick to walk on. The garage door openers aren’t working so you have to get out of the car to close and open the barn door. Put the car in the barn and came up to the house and put the groceries away.

I am peopled out for the day. I had very little patience today. Yesterday must have drained my patience level to zero. I’m grateful I am tucked in at home for the weekend. We shall see what reaction I have to the vaccine this time. The lady warned me the second shot is usually worse than the first one. Yikes! It may be a long weekend if that is the case.

It has warmed up a bit today. My Tempest isn’t showing that it is above freezing yet but things are melting and softening. Unfortunately we are to have yet another cold front come through tonight and hang around until Sunday. I was tempted to let the chickens out today but decided against it. I will let them out Sunday and they should be good to go next week as the highs are in the 30’s and even up to the 40’s.

I’m having some pain in my front lower right jaw. Not sure if it is a tooth, gum or a jaw problem. The pain seems to shift around a bit and I can’t find the hot spot. It had flared up about a month ago but then went away and I had forgotten about it. It came back last night and is there again today. Sure is painful. Wish I knew what was causing it and what to do about it. I took some Tylenol last night and that seemed to help.

I’m tired this afternoon. After going nine days without being around people, two long days out and about have worn me out. I’m grateful I get to stay home until Monday. I am getting close to wanting to become a hermit and totally staying away from people.

Tomorrow is Tagen’s 18th birthday. I got the ingredients to make him some peanut butter balls if I feel up to it. I haven’t mailed his birthday present yet so maybe I will get the peanut butter balls made and get those and his present to him this weekend. I’ll see how I am feeling in the morning.

I was a bit disappointed in myself at how impatient I was today. I didn’t feel drained until I got out and was tested a bit. My reserve tank must be empty. I would have thought after being home for nine days it would have been filled.

Grateful things worked out with the vaccine and I was able to get it today since I have a couple days free to get over a reaction if I have one, grateful groceries and chicken feed are stocked up, and grateful for the warmer temperatures today.

The window guy showed up around 5:00 last night and fixed the back door. It had come unaligned. It only took him about 10 minutes to fix it. He wasn’t the one that installed it. He said he thought the guy that had installed it hadn’t done it properly or else the cold weather caused it to move a bit. Whatever! It works now.

It has been a long day. I left for KC this morning a little after 10:00 and got home right around 7:00 tonight. Traffic was heavy coming out of KC but smooth sailing after I got south of Olathe and Gardner. The roads were clear. Parking lots were a bit treacherous but I managed to stay upright.

Stopped for gas when I got to KC as I had a few extra minutes. I didn’t want to have to do that after dark when my day was done.

My first stop of the day was to have three big vials of blood drawn and my vitals taken. My blood pressure was 120/72 today which is perfect.

I then had a full body DXA scan to check body mass, fat and water measurements.

I then went for the exercise testing portion of the day. I did some timed chair stand ups, got up from a chair and walked a loop and then back again – rinse and repeat for a time limit, walked down a long hallway many times for a walking time test, did some weight lifting to check arm and leg strength, and did a flexibility test.

Next up was the dreaded tread mill test. I got all wired up with heart leads and then they put a face mask of some sort on me. I had to get my heart rate up to 150 and maintain that for a bit. When I was winding down that test they did a blood sugar check. I was pleased with how long I was able to last on the treadmill. I did better than I expected I would be able to do.

Back to the nurse for two more big vials of blood taken out. Last thing was getting a FitBit that I will use so they can track my exercising during the program.

The FitBit was a graduation prize of sorts as they only give it to those that pass their testing. Yay! They are to call me in a week or so to get me set up with my trainer.

All the people I worked with today were great. The lady that drew my blood the second time commented about my vein in my left arm. It runs east and west instead of north and south. She said she has only had one other patient with a vein like that.

I left that office around 2:30 and went to lunch. I found a hole in the wall Mexican place that was delicious. I then went to the MRI place and had a head MRI done. That only took about 15 minutes. I was done for the day when that was over.

Kathy shoveled a path from the garage to the house today that made the walk up tonight much easier. I used the light on my iPhone to light my path. I am grateful I have a big barn that fits all three cars in it.

Tomorrow I have to be in Emporia at 11:00 for my second Shingles vaccine. Then I will go to the Chiropractor and get adjusted. I will try to get time to grab some lunch to eat while I sit and wait at Thomson’s to get the tires balanced and aligned. I am due there around noon. I have a few stops to make afterwards as I need chicken and dog food and people food – AKA groceries.

I left Friday free and clear in case I have a reaction like I did last time to the vaccine. No plans for the weekend. After today and tomorrow I may need a couple days at home to recover. After being home for nine days, two big days in a row feels like a lot.

It felt good to get out today. I was anxious thinking about getting out yesterday but had no issues today. It sure helped that it felt like we had a bit of a heat wave today. It reached the low to mid 30’s while I was in KC. It only made it to 29 on the prairie but even that feels like spring. I had turned off my fireplace this morning to give it a rest. It had been on non stop for the last nine days. The house was really quiet this morning and I realized it was because the furnace had been able to shut off.

Today feels like I took a big step on my journey to wellness. I’m grateful I qualified for the program and look forward to getting started in the gym. I have needed something that would motivate me to get my ass to the gym and not let me quit. Somehow it makes it easier for me to do that when I know someone else is depending on me to get there. One of these days I will be able to do it just for me but for now I will lean on others to get me there.

I’m tired tonight. I had trouble falling asleep last night and didn’t sleep well. Hoping I will catch up tonight and sleep lots. If the vaccine reacts like it did last time, I will sleep most of the day Friday. Maybe that will get me caught up with sleep.

Feels a bit disorienting tonight at home after being gone all day. It feels like not all of me has gotten home yet. I know, that is weird but not sure how else to describe how I am feeling. I’m sure the rest of me will get here soon! Ha!

Grateful for a safe trip to and from KC today, grateful I passed all the criteria to qualify for the exercise program, and grateful for the warmer temperatures today.

I went down to do the chickens after I blogged yesterday. I found their heat lamp bulb was out. I went up to the barn and plugged in the base unit that was in the barn to make sure it was working – it was. I took out the bulb and took it back down to the chicken coop. I put the new bulb in the old base and it didn’t work. I went back up to the barn and got the base unit and took it down to the coop. I put the bulb that had worked in the barn in it and it didn’t come on. By then I was getting frozen and frustrated and had to go back to the house to warm up. I had been out in the cold about 30 minutes by this time. My hands burned for about 30 minutes after I got back into the house as they had gotten so cold.

I worried about the chickens not having a heat lamp all night. When I went down to take care of them today, the heat lamp was working and they all seemed to be doing OK. Not sure what is going on. Grateful it was working today – at least for now.

It got down to 19.7 below zero last night here on my hill on the prairie. It is to warm up to 14 today but doubting it will make it. At 2:30 it is -1. We shall see what happens.

I let the dogs out the south facing door off the living room. I couldn’t get the door to close. Kathy came up and attempted it too. The locking mechanism is not working properly. I have a chair propped up against the door to keep the door closed. It isn’t a tight fit though.

I called the new window guys and they are to send someone out this afternoon to fix it. I am not impressed with the new windows. This is the second problem I have had in the first month of having the new windows. I shall see what they say when they get here.

The dogs have been in and out all day. They spent the night outside as they wouldn’t come in when I called them. They went out for a bit today but are back in now. The cat is staying out but she is sleeping under the heat lamp in the heated box in the garage.

I was going to go to town this afternoon but now I have to stay home for when the window guys come. They were to have called me about two hours ago to let me know what they are going to do and they haven’t called me back. I would have told them about the snow drifts in the upper driveway if they had called me back. Guess they will figure it out when and if they get here.

Still haven’t decided if I am going to the meeting I have on my calendar tonight or not. It will depend on when the window guy gets here. I do have some things I need from town but walking up the driveway after dark doesn’t sound very smart to me. Kathy made it down this morning in the dark. I left the outside barn light on to give her some light but not sure it lights up the whole driveway.

I will get out tomorrow for sure as I have to go to KC. I don’t have to be there until 12:30 so won’t have to leave until 10:30. My last appointment of the day is at 4:45 so won’t get home until after dark. Sure hope it is a bit warmer tomorrow than it has been today.

This is day nine of my lock in at home. Thinking about getting out earlier today gave me anxiety. I don’t usually have anxiety so not is sure what is up with that. Good thing I like staying home I guess.

Haven’t figured out how to get the trash to the curb. I didn’t take it last week either. There is no way to pull the trash can over the snow to get it down there. I would have to carry the trash bag by bag over the snow drifts to put it in my car to drive it down. Since it is so cold, at least it doesn’t smell! Think I will skip it again this week. I will have a big pile of it next week. Trusting I will be able to get it down then.

Life gets complicated sometimes. The extreme cold seems to make everything harder to do – if not impossible to do. Not sure I could live in a climate where this type of weather lasted for months. This week plus of it has tested my limits.

The furnace has finally caught up and even turned off for a bit today. It has been running non stop since this cold snap came in. The thermostat today is showing the set temperature for the first time in several days. It hasn’t been able to get to temp until now.

So far next week’s forecast is looking much better. We are to be in the upper 30’s to lower 40’s most of next week. Shorts weather almost!

This year has gotten off to a challenging start for me so far. Problems seem to be cropping up daily. I told Kathy it feels like someone or something is messing with me. May have to get the sage stick out and smudge myself and the house.

Grateful the window guy can come today to fix the door, grateful the heat lamp is on, and grateful the furnace got a short break today.

Happy birthday to my younger brother Chad. Trust his day is safe and warm.

It is snowing again on the prairie. We have gotten about an inch so far and it is still coming down. The wind is lightly blowing today but not the gale force winds we had earlier. The sun is trying to come through so maybe the snow is about done. I don’t think the temperature got much above zero again today.

Kathy braved the elements and went to town this morning. She got home just before the snow started flying. Good timing on her part. We both hadn’t thought that since we have to park in the barn we have to carry groceries from the barn and over the snow drifts to the house. It took Kathy a couple of trips to get them all in the house.

I have a fairly large grocery list but may cut it back to essentials so I don’t have to carry so much up to the house on Thursday. Maybe by then the driveway will get cleared. It is to warm up Wednesday and maybe we can get the driveway shoveled out again.

I need to get chicken feed this week too. There is no way I am carrying a 50 pound sack of chicken feed over the snow drifts. I will leave it in the barn and deal with it there. I think I have one more full bag of dog feed that will last another week or so. Hopefully in another week when it runs out I can get a bag of dog food to the house easily.

I haven’t been down to do the chicken chores yet. I was hoping the snow would let up and it would be a bit easier to walk down there. It sees to be lighter now than it was before so we shall see what it does.

The dogs spent the night outside but came in this morning when I opened the back door. They have been out once but didn’t stay long. They are both snoring and taking a long winter’s nap in the house. The cat came in but wanted back out.

Jason brought home the insurance papers I needed so I got those taken care of and checks written out to cover the new insurance. He will take those to town with him tomorrow and hopefully I will be set.

My meeting for tonight got postponed until tomorrow night. I may or may not go tomorrow night depending on the weather. It is risky walking down the snow drift covered driveway during the day and not sure I want to try to navigate it at night.

Jason brought home some frozen bread dough balls so I am going to make bierrock for dinner tonight. Kathy made some soup this morning and had some leftover cabbage and this will be a good way to use that up.

Decided not to bother cleaning house until the dogs don’t have to come in for the day. They slobber all over the floor while they sleep and leave spots everywhere. No one is coming over any time soon and I will get it cleaned up sooner or later.

Still haven’t heard back from the insurance adjuster about the final window payment. I will give him to the end of the week and then i will have to bug him about it. I had to pay the final half of the bill out of savings and sure would like to get those funds as soon as possible.

This is day eight of my weather isolation at home. I have a lunch to go to tomorrow if I can get out. It is in Cottonwood Falls so don’t have to go far. If the weather is good, I will go into Emporia after lunch and get groceries, pick up a prescription and go to the Chiropractor. I have to go to Emporia Thursday to get my vaccine and have the tires balanced and aligned so I can get them then if needed. I’ll get chicken feed one or the other day too.

Wednesday I have to go to KC. So far the forecast for that day is holding good for travel. It is to be in the high 20’s that day which will feel like a heat wave compared to the below zero crap we have had the last few days.

I haven’t gone totally bonkers staying home this long – yet! With the temperature as cold as it has been, I have been perfectly content to stay in. Walking down to take care of the chickens gets me out in the cold enough. Usually by this long at home without leaving the house, I get anxious and need to get out. Not sure why that hasn’t happened this time.

Sure hope this is the only long blast of winter we will get this year. It has been brutal. We haven’t seen temperatures like this for quite a while. Hopefully, it will be a long time before we see them again. I sure feel for the ranchers that have to feed livestock in this as well as all the other people that have to work outside. It has been dangerously cold.

Even with the isolation, January sure seems to be going faster than December did for me. December was a month that felt like it was three months long. Time seems to pass by whether I do anything or not.

Grateful Kathy has a safe trip to and from town, grateful I get to stay home again today, and grateful it is to warm up by Wednesday.

This is my seventh day of staying home without leaving the property. Not sure I will get out tomorrow. I have a meeting to go to at 6:00 Monday night but not sure if I will go. I have to park in the barn and coming up the icy, snow packed driveway after dark doesn’t sound very safe to me. We shall see what happens.

It was easier doing the chicken chores today as the wind wasn’t blowing near as hard as it has been. My Tempest weather station is showing that it is -6 outside right now. It was -11 this morning. Without the wind, it doesn’t feel that cold. The girls gave me 12 eggs today for my troubles. They seem to be managing this cold spell OK. I don’t see any danger signs on them yet.

I walked down the short cut way which was a mistake. The snowdrifts that way are to frozen over so much and I kept sinking down. I never went further down than my tall boots but it was work walking through it. I came back up using the driveway and that way I don’t sink down through the drifts. It gets my heart rate up either way. I consider it my exercise for the day.

I made a pot of white chicken chili this morning. I baked a corn bread to go with it. We have been eating on it all afternoon. Hot soup on a very cold day feels good for the soul.

The house is staying at the set temperature of 71 in the living room but my bedroom is down to 64. Kathy said downstairs is down to 65. The furnace and fireplace run all the time. We are to get a bit of a break on Wednesday when this bitter cold moves out. The high for Wednesday is to be 28. That will feel like a heat wave.

I got up this morning to watch the sunrise but there were enough clouds that I didn’t see any sun dogs. The sky was a beautiful pink color when I first got up but by the time I went to the bathroom and put on my glasses the pink color was gone and it was gray. Maybe the sun set tonight won’t disappoint.

We didn’t get any more snow today and am hoping we won’t get any more tomorrow. I was very grateful the winds have stayed calmer today. The sound of the wind was wearing out my last nerve.

Sophia spent most of the evening in the house last night. She wanted out when I went to bed and she didn’t want to come back in. When I checked on her this morning she came right in and stayed for a couple of hours. I dragged Roxy in mid day and she took a nap and then wanted back out. They are out romping in the snow now. I’ll see if I can talk them into coming back in tonight.

Haven’t gotten much done today. I did take a good nap this afternoon. I wanted to go back to bed this morning but couldn’t fall back asleep. Haven’t felt too motivated to get anything done. I don’t have anything urgent to do so that makes it easier to not do anything. I have some housework that needs done but no one is coming over and it seems to be able to wait patiently for me to get to it.

We watched the football game last night. The Chiefs played better than they have for a while but still didn’t make some easy plays. As cold as it was, I’m surprised they were able to throw the ball at all. There is always that crazy fan that takes their shirt off and we saw that last night. Hope when they sobered up this morning they didn’t discover frost bite. Saw pictures of drinks freezing in the cup holders by the seats. Talk about cold beer – I bet they had it there last night.

It will be interesting to see how I handle getting back out in the public whenever I make that happen this week. After this extended time home I wonder if I can handle it. This stretch has reminded me of the early Covid days when I only would get out of the house once a week or so. Good thing I am an introvert and like staying home.

Grateful for this time home for this extended stay, grateful the wind calmed down today, and grateful for Sunday afternoon naps.

Chicken chores are done. I feel like that is a good day’s work these days. The girls gave me 13 eggs today. They seemed to be handling the cold fairly well. Jason brought me a five gallon watering container so I got that put in place. The other one was only two or three gallons and they kept running out of water with it. Grateful that is taken care of.

It is brutally cold outside again. I don’t think we have cracked 0 yet. My Tempest weather station is not doing well. I think there is some ice in it.

Kathy and I were both up early so we watched the sunrise. People were posting pictures of sun dogs yesterday and I hoped we would see one this morning. Last night there was a beautiful light pillar coming from the sun as it was setting.

The sunrise did not disappoint us this morning. It was fabulous and we saw the sun dogs. If the clouds had not been above the sunrise the sun dogs would have created a complete rainbow. It is hard to get pictures of them but I did my best.

I feel a bit like I am living in two different realities at the same time. If I look out the west windows it is often a white out blizzard scene. If I look out the east windows it is usually clear. Truth is funny like that – it depends on your perspective.

I’m sure glad I canceled the Five Wishes Workshop for today. It is a challenge to get inside my house right now with the driveway drifted close. It is cold enough I can walk on top of the snow and not sink through very often. There is a layer of ice in the low spots. Grateful I made it down and back up again without falling.

This is day six of staying home. I might be able to get out Tuesday but it may be Wednesday. We are to get a bit of a warm up Tuesday and by Wednesday it is to be in the high 20’s. That sounds like a heat wave right now.

I have to go to KC Wednesday so grateful it will be a good day to go. I won’t get home until after dark and I don’t like being out after dark, especially when the roads are dicey. So far, the forecast is in my favor.

I’m going to have Jason take a check to the new insurance people Monday and bring me the paperwork I need to sign. He can return it on Tuesday. That way I don’t have to get out. I have to have the insurance signed, sealed, and paid for by Friday morning and I don’t want to wait to do it Wednesday. That seems to be cutting it too close.

Thursday I have to go to Emporia to get my second Shingles vaccine and then I am going to get my wheels balanced and the alignment done. I think I have time to go to the Chiropractor between those two appointments. I had to miss my Chiropractor appointment this week as I couldn’t get to town. I will pick up any groceries I need when my car is done.

Tagen turns 18 next Friday. Where does the time go? I’ll have to get his present to him somehow. I may have to mail it.

I made No Bake Chocolate Cookies today and then made a meat loaf and made potato cakes out of the left over mashed potatoes from last night. Feels good to eat real food again. I won’t eat the cookies but Jason and Kathy will enjoy them. If there are any left, I will take some to Tagen and Ellexia when I can get out.

Jason got the TV hooked up to Peacock so we can watch the frozen football game tonight. I can’t believe they didn’t cancel that game. Trust no one gets seriously injured due to the cold. You couldn’t pay me to go to that game in person. Of course, it would take lots to get me to go to any of the games – even in good weather. I don’t like noise and crowds.

I’m handling life much better today. I feel like I am back up the ladder of consciousness. The last two days were rough. So far today, nothing has broken or challenged me. I have absolutely reached my limit on that kind of thing.

There was nothing wrong with the furnace. The wind and cold is making it hard for it to keep up. I don’t remember this happening before but I don’t remember it being this cold and windy this long. I’m so very grateful for my propane fireplace that has kept the living room comfortable. I’m grateful I had the guy come out and check it out though. It would have been a miserable weekend if there had been something wrong and they couldn’t get out to fix it until Monday. It is too cold to take chances.

I dragged Sophia into the laundry room today and made her stay inside for 30 minutes. She wasn’t very happy with me. Roxy gets in the heated box in the garage under the heat lamp but Roxy won’t let Sophia in there. Sophia has a rug to lay on but the garage is cold. They were out romping in the snow a bit ago. They are built for weather like this but it makes me cold to watch them. That reminds me when my kids were little – I would put a sweater on them when I got cold!

I put a portable heater in the laundry room. It was having trouble staying warm in there and I was afraid the water pipes would freeze. The pipe in the garage that I can’t open backs into the laundry room. The last thing I need is a broken pipe.

Grateful today has been a better day, grateful I have the luxury of staying home in this dangerous weather, and grateful the chicken chores are done for the day.

And my streak of bad luck continues…..

I woke up to a cold house this morning. The furnace is running and the lights say it is working but the thermostat said it was 64 in the living room. I keep it set at 71 all day and night. I turned on the fireplace and it has warmed up to 66. Not sure if it is the 55 MPH wind gust and the 3 degree temperature or if something is wrong. The service guy is coming out to make sure since it is Friday. I have a feeling it is working but just can’t keep up. The wind chill is -23 and the sustaining wind is 40 MPH.

I found snow inside a window in the NW corner of the bathroom. I sent a picture of it to the window guys. He had me double check that the window was properly locked – it is. Not sure what they are going to do about that.

The driveway that got shoveled out yesterday is no longer clear. Thank heavens Kathy and I left our cars in the barn and didn’t park them in the garage. The rest of the driveway looks clear although I didn’t walk it to make sure. Neither one of us are going anywhere anytime soon and I don’t need to know if the rest of it is blocked. Guess when the furnace guy gets here I will find out about the rest of the driveway.

I went down to take care of the chickens. Kathy kept an eye on me until I got back to the house. When I walked down the driveway and hit the drift, I didn’t sink down through the snow. By the time I came back up, I couldn’t tell where I had walked the first time.

The girls gave me 16 eggs today. That is a winter record for them. Guess they don’t have anything else to do but lay eggs. Thinking I need to charge a premium price for them. Hazard tax of some sort!

They were out of water so grateful I went down. Their coop felt OK to me temperature wise. I’m grateful I put up the heat lamp as it adds a bit of heat for them. I was able to get all three doors open so grateful for that.

Walking back up to the house is harder than walking down as my buckets are empty and I don’t have their weight to stabilize me. That wind is brutal to walk into. Almost went down a couple of times but I managed to remain vertical and had an uneventful trip down and back.

The water faucet in the garage was so tight I couldn’t turn it on when I tried to fill the chicken bucket with water. I have a mop sink in the laundry room that I used to fill the bucket with. I’ll have to fill a bucket and take out and fill the dog’s water bowl.

The dogs were outside romping in the snow a bit ago. They have been hanging in the garage under the heat lamp and on the heating pad part of the day.

Woke up feeling tired mid morning. I took my medication and then ate breakfast. I couldn’t find my on switch today so went back to bed and slept another two hours. Still feeling drained this afternoon. I had a very hard day yesterday and today’s issues haven’t helped. Thinking I have reached my limit and need to recharge somehow.

This is day five of my staying at home. Doesn’t look like I will get out this weekend at the temperature is to be hovering close to 0 all weekend and dipping below zero during the night. This weather is not fit for beast or man. It sure would help if the wind would calm down. It looks like a blizzard out right now with the snow blowing so hard.

I’m going to fix myself a good dinner tonight. I haven’t been eating very good and thinking that might help. It is a good day to have the oven on and maybe help warm up the kitchen. Cream chicken and biscuits sound mighty good to me right now. I shouldn’t eat the biscuits but I need comfort food today.

Grateful the chores are done for the day, grateful the furnace is going to get checked out, and grateful I have the luxury of staying home today.

What a day. I got the three problems of the day solved. The bank thing got straightened out after a 30 minute phone call. The barn door was fixed thanks to Greg Johnson from Midwest Locksmith. He put on a keypad latch so I won’t ever have this problem again. Two high school kids came and shoveled my driveway so I can get to the garage. Yeah!

I didn’t have an easy time with any of these issues but it does feel good that they are solved.

My cousin recommended I apply some heat to the door lock in case it had ice inside it. I took a blow dryer down and then remembered the plug-in is inside the locked barn. There is a plug in on the NW side of the barn but the extension cord was in the locked barn. After saying a naughty word or two, I gave up and called the locksmith.

The two guys that showed up made quick work of the deep snow. The wind is picking up and their faces were mighty red from the wind and cold by the time they were done. It took them about 40 minutes of shoveling to clear a path. I paid them well and told them I would call them again if I get another snow drift.

When I talked to them after school was out, they told me they might wait to come tomorrow. I told them it is going to be really cold tomorrow and was grateful they showed up this afternoon.

I had a good cry before all the solutions fell into place. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with things that go wrong. The responsibility of keeping this place running feels too big to manage sometimes. Grateful the three problems of the day got resolved.

Never did make it to town today. I might go tomorrow depending on what the weather does overnight and tomorrow morning. What I need to do in town can wait till next week if it has to. I do need to get insurance paid for before January 20. Luckily I don’t need any groceries and can get by till next week for those.

Kathy went down with me to help me lock up the chickens. I close their access door to the outside pen when the temperatures drop below 20. It takes two people to do that job as one needs to make sure the chickens can’t get out and the other closes the little trap door. Two chickens came out as we went down but both wisely went back in. I was in no mood to chase a chicken today and they must have sensed that!

Never did take a nap today. I laid down but the barn door was on my mind and I couldn’t rest until I figured out what I was going to do about it. After I called the Locksmith I needed to stay up to go down to meet him when he came. After he left the guys came to shovel. I will try to go to bed early tonight and hopefully get a good night’s sleep. I am overdue for one.

I fixed Kathy and I a cauliflower crust pizza from Costco for lunch. I needed comfort food and that hit the spot. Kathy is always up for eating pizza. She had a rough day at work and needed some comfort food too.

I managed to make a few phone calls and take care of some other issues that are pending. The heater guy is to go to Michelle’s house and try to figure out why Ellexia’s room doesn’t have heat. The plumber is going to light some fire under the booster pump people and see if we can get that issue resolved. I made an appointment to get my second Shingles shot for next week and made an appointment to get my wheels aligned and balanced. Feels good to have gotten all that stuff done. Don’t know why doing little things like that is hard for me but somedays I just don’t have it in me to make those calls.

Trusting tomorrow will be a better day. I’m grateful that all my issues of the day got resolved today and didn’t carry into tomorrow. I get a fresh start tomorrow and hopefully will be trouble free for a bit. I am way overdue for a break in house issues.

I am ready for a boring day on the prairie. My life has had way too many challenges lately and I am ready for things to quiet down. I’m grateful I was able to regroup and problem solve today and get things done. It was a hard day though and I am grateful it is almost over.

Grateful for Greg Johnson and his speedy help today, grateful to the two high school kids that made the shoveling look easy, and grateful this day is almost over.

This has not. been my day and it is not even half way done. I got a call from the fraud department of my bank. It was an automated call and came in on a line my phone didn’t recognize. It wanted me to give it my zip code and I hung up and called the bank direct.

The bank has changed to an automated system – I hate those things. What I wanted was the fraud department and it was not an option. I finally got connected to a person who had to ask me seven verification questions. When I finally could get to the point with her, she said the fraud department was a different department and she had no idea if they were trying to reach me. I kept at her and she finally transferred me to them.

Turns out the call had been legit but the charge they were questioning was legit too. They took the hold off my card and allowed the charge to go through. That whole process took over 30 minutes. Somethings are just not simple these days.

Decided to go to town to get my insurance taken care of. Got what I needed and made the slippery, treacherous trip down to the barn where my car is. The door to the barn had gotten locked accidentally. The key to the barn is in my car which is in the barn. I have a spare at the house so carefully walked back up. Couldn’t figure out which key it was so took all of them back down to the barn. Found the right one but it isn’t working. Not sure if there is ice in the lock or what. I’ll have to put some WD40 on it and try again.

I decided the universe was trying to tell me not to go to town so came back up to the house. When I do the chicken chores this afternoon I will take some WD40 down and try again. If that doesn’t work, I’m not sure what I will do.

I have had it up to my neck with problems with this house. Yesterday I got stuck and was rescued by my neighbors. Today I am locked out of the barn which has my car in it. Wonder what tomorrow will bring? Not sure I want to know!

I saw a post on Facebook yesterday from a kid that is looking for driveways and sidewalks to shovel. I am to text him at 3:35 today and I think he is coming out to shovel my driveway. It isn’t a long area but it is deep. With this cold wind, there is an icy, crispy layer on top. Not sure he will be able to remove it. Wanted to try to get it gone before the real cold weather comes in tonight and tomorrow. We shall see how this works out.

I took a nap yesterday which was a good thing as I didn’t sleep much again last night. I have been up since about 4:00. Maybe I will go back to bed and try this day again.

Enough with the issues with the house! I have reached my breaking point and can’t deal with any more right now. Even the beauty of the sunrise this morning did little to quiet my soul. I will take a nap and then put on my big girl panties and deal with it all. Just need a break for a hot minute or two!

Grateful I can put myself into time-out so I don’t cause harm to another human today, grateful I have the luxury of being able to stay home today, and grateful for the nap I see in my future.

What a day. I worried about the chickens running out of water all night so finally got up rather early to take them a different watering container that will hold water. I had a smaller one in the garage that holds water and needed to get it down to them. I put the container in the car along with a bucket of water. I wanted to see if I could get out the driveway to go to a meeting tonight so got the car out of the garage and headed down the driveway.

Wrong thing to do! I should have walked the driveway to check it out first. I got stuck in a hip deep snow bank. I took care of the chickens and then came back up to the house to think about how I was going to get my car out.

My dear neighbor had messaged me while I was out taking care of the chickens and offered to send her husband up with his pickup to break a path in the driveway if needed. What divine timing! I sent her a note back and said I was stuck and she said they would be up to get me out.

They came up in a pickup with a tow chain. The chain was too big to go through the tow hole on the front of my car. I got a S hook out of the chicken coop but it wasn’t strong enough to hold. We were trying to come up with another option so I went in the barn to see if I had something in there that might work.

I noticed the camper had a safety chain and told Mike about it. He was able to get it disconnected from the camper and then used it to connect to the towing chain he had brought. It worked and he was able to pull me out.

What ever would I do without my dear neighbors? They have rescued me several times now. I owe them big time for this one (and the other times).

There is a knee high drift in front of the barn that I worked on shoveling for a bit. Kathy came home and is going to work on it some more. If we can get it knocked down we can park in the barn until the drift blocking the driveway goes away. Looking at the forecast it might be a month or so before it warms up enough to melt it down. Our high for next week is to be in the low 20’s with nighttime at or below zero.

I did shovel the ice off the garage pad so we can walk into the garage from the barn without falling and breaking a hip. I also shoveled the pad in front of the barn that didn’t have snow on it but had a layer of ice. It is really melting today so that should dry off and not be a hazard to walk on.

I called the leader of the meeting I was supposed to go to tonight and told her I wasn’t going to make it in. I don’t want to be out after dark if I have to park in the barn. It is a bit tricky to walk up to the house from the barn with the deep snow. I don’t want to do that in the dark.

I really need to find someone with a tractor or a plow on front of a pickup to come up and plow out the big drift in my driveway. This has only happened one other time since I have lived here the last ten years. The rest of the driveway is clear and free of drifts. The drift blocking my path out is a big one.

Feel like I have gotten a days work done and I haven’t done much. Shoveling this heavy snow is a workout! It is really melting a lot today and there is a hard crust on top of the drifts. Most drifts I can walk over and not fall down into but sometimes, when I least expect it, I go down and then have to work my way out. I have used muscles I had forgotten I had.

I didn’t get much sleep last night. I finally got up around 4:30 and took another bath and that helped me find three hours of sleep. I am thinking a nap is on my schedule this afternoon. I won’t be going anywhere so I might as well take a nap.

We are to get more precipitation Thursday night and Friday morning. Hoping this one isn’t as bad as the last one. The cold front comes in Friday and temperatures will drop quickly and stay that way for most of next week.

I am going to postpone the Five Wishes Workshop I had scheduled for Saturday. It is too hard to get to my house right now. I don’t want someone coming and falling on the ice and snow. Everything will be frozen solid by Saturday and the risk is too high. I will reschedule for another day when the weather is better.

I do need to get to town either Friday or Monday to sign insurance papers so I have coverage January 20 when the coverage I currently have expires. I’ll see what the weather does Friday with the expected storm coming in. Hopefully I can make it to town Monday If I can’t go Friday.

Oh the joys of country living. One learns how to be resourceful and how important neighbors are. It was a scary feeling knowing I was trapped and couldn’t get out if I needed to. Thank heavens I have all that I need and can stay home for several days before I have to get out.

I need to take the chickens some dry straw. The watering container leaked for several days before I connected the dots and figured out why they were running out of water. The bottom of the coop is wet and the chickens need some dry straw to help keep them warm this next week. They do have a heat lamp in the coop but dry bedding would help lots. I will go get that taken care of when I get through blogging.

The propane guy came today and filled the tank. That is a relief. This coming cold snap is not the time to run out of propane. I haven’t seen the propane ticket yet so not sure how much he had to put in. I had meant to check it when I went down to do the chickens today and got distracted when I got stuck. Grateful he showed up and got it taken care of.

Louis was happy to see Kathy today. Kathy will be home to stay tomorrow afternoon. She has been housesitting for a friend in Strong City. Louis is a bit spoiled and doesn’t like Kathy being gone so will be happy she is home to stay tomorrow.

Trusting the rest of the day will be less eventful. I plan on tucking in and not getting out. I have plenty to do around here if I find the motivation to get something done. I don’t need any groceries so will stay inside. I bow to Mother Nature and will honor this quiet time.

Grateful for my neighbors who pulled me out of a high snow drift, grateful for Kathy for coming to shovel in front of the barn, and grateful for a timely propane delivery.

Made it back up from doing the chicken chores. We got about 6 – 8 inches of snow last night and have had winds over 45MPH today. My normal path down to the chickens had hip high snow drifts. I took a detour of sorts but still had to walk through knee high drifts.

There is a crust on the top of the drifts and most of the time I didn’t sink down through but occasionally I would. I was balancing a bucket of water in one hand and a bucket of feed in the other. The buckets acted like hiking poles of sorts. There is a thick layer of ice under the snow. My yard has lots of bare spots where the snow has blown off of it. On the way back up to the house I had a Mary Poppins minute when the wind caught one of the empty buckets and tried to carry us away.

I managed to get the gate into the pen open. The doors to the coop were frozen shut. I used the feed bucket as a hammer to knock the ice off the latch to the door and it worked. It was a struggle to pull the door open as it was frozen in places but I got it. Grateful I went down as they were out of water. I will have to replace their water can tomorrow and lay some more dry straw down.

The girls gave me 11 frozen rocks (I mean eggs) today. They all seemed to be surviving the storm ok. No dead ones yet!

I think I will count that as my exercise for the day. I was worn out by the time I got back up to the house. Walking in the high wind and through the deep drifts was a challenge. I don’t think I will take the trash down today – not worth the risk to my life to do so. I think I can get my car out but not sure. I don’t want to get stuck and I don’t have anywhere I have to go so am not going to try it.

Hopefully the wind will slow down this evening. It isn’t to be so windy tomorrow. There have been times today the snow is blowing so hard I can’t see the chicken coop.

Felt a bit claustrophobic today knowing I couldn’t get out if I wanted to. It doesn’t usually bother me but it hit hard this morning. I’m grateful the chicken chores are done for the day. Maybe now my anxiety can calm down and I can settle in for the night.

The lights blinked off and then came back on this morning. Grateful I haven’t lost power. Grateful I have the propane fireplace to keep me warm if the power does go off. Lots around have no power. I feel for them.

I’m so grateful I canceled my appointment for KU today. Not sure I would have been able to make it back home if I made it there. This weather is not fit to be out in unless you absolutely have to be out and about. I haven’t seen a winter storm like this one for a long time. I’m afraid the snow is going to be on the ground for a long time as we have a major cold front coming in with temperatures in the single digits for the high and lows will be below zero. Yuck! Calgon, take me away!

The dogs, on the other hand, are loving this weather. They have a heat lamp in their box in the garage as well as a heating pad but they are choosing to lay outside. They don’t seem to be minding the cold and wind in the least.

On a day like this I feel very small. Mother Nature is putting on quite a show today and I have to respect her power. It can make me feel a bit powerless though.

My heart goes out to those that have no power or no back up food supply. I am so blessed to be able to tuck in my warm house and know that I have all that I need without having to get out. I can stay home the rest of the week if needed and I will be fine. Not everyone can do that.

Feel like baking some cookies today so may do that when I get done blogging. I don’t eat them but can always freeze them and find a home for them another day. I need to find something to do other than sit and baking sounds fun for some reason today.

How did the pioneers survive winter on the plains way back when? I have a lot of respect and awe for them. I can’t imagine living through this is a log cabin like they lived in.

Grateful the chicken chores are done for the day, grateful to be tucked inside my warm house with lots of food, and grateful the wind will be slowing down this evening.

Rain? Snow? Dry? All of the above? I woke up to hearing hard rain falling. Went back to sleep and when I woke up again I thought the rain had stopped. Looked outside and we were getting snow. That has moved on and now it is dry. More rain/snow is predicted for the rest of the day and overnight.

It was a mud fest going down to take care of the chickens. Definitely needed my muck boots today. The girls gave me 12 eggs on this wet, cold January morning.

I called and rescheduled my MRI and exercise test with KU. The lady said I was on her list for her to call me to reschedule. I was thinking about driving up this afternoon but I checked radar and the road between here and there was getting snow so decided to stay home and reschedule. I will try again next week.

The watering can for the chickens seems to not be holding water – or else they are drinking lots of extra water. I will keep an eye on it and will need to get a new one if it isn’t holding water. Eggs are mainly water and the chickens won’t lay eggs if they don’t have enough water. I had thought about going into Strong City this morning to get one until I saw the snow coming down. I am a big chicken these days when it comes to getting out on icky roads. Just don’t do it unless I absolutely have to.

My neighbor came up to get some eggs. She said V Rd was slick today. V Road used to be a nice gravel road but the gravel seems to have disappeared lately. It is much muddier than it ever used to be.

Haven’t gotten anything done yet today. It is a good day to sit and guess what the weather is going to do. I had left my vacuum out thinking I would get the hallway and entry way cleaned today. I still might but it hasn’t sounded important enough to motivate me to do it yet. When I get tired of sitting, I will get at it.

Kathy sent me a text and asked me to feed Louis. I’m grateful she chose to stay inside where it was warm and not get out to do something I could easily do. She doesn’t have a garage where she is housesitting so she would have had to clean her car off. Silly to do that when she had an option to stay in.

I have a meeting to go to in Emporia Wednesday evening at 6:45 if the roads are good by then. It will probably get canceled if they aren’t good. I don’t like driving at night these days and avoid it when I can.

We are to get bitter cold by the end of the week with the high in the single digits. I don’t like that cold of weather. It gets scary just walking down to take care of the chickens when it is that cold. Come on Spring! I am ready for you.

Nothing on my calendar other than the possible meeting Wednesday night until the Five Wishes Workshop Saturday. Not expecting many to come as it is going to be very cold that day. I will schedule another one sometime in February, hopefully when the weather is a bit warmer. One never knows in KS what to expect.

I do need to get to Emporia either late this week or Monday of next week to sign insurance papers so I can obtain new house and car insurance. Hopefully, things will clear out soon and it will be easy to get to town. May have to skip going to the Chiropractor this week but that is no big deal. Grateful I got groceries yesterday.

Winter is a good time to turn inward and do some reflections and shadow work. Might as well use this cue from Mother Nature and get some extra rest and quiet time. She seems to be reminding me that this time of isolation is needed for my soul right now. Sometimes it is hard for me to sit with my self and allow myself to feel whatever needs to come up.

Grateful I can stay home and be warm and cozy on this winter day, grateful KU was able to reschedule my appointment tomorrow so I can stay home, and grateful for this empty space time of peace, quiet and isolation.

Happy birthday to Craig. He is wintering in Florida – smart man. Trust Nancy will spoil him today and celebrate him for us.

Went to Emporia mid day to drop some mail off at Michelle’s house, make a deposit and pick up a few groceries. The forecast is not looking good for several days so decided I needed to go today while the roads were dry and clear. We are to have blizzard conditions Monday and Tuesday. Pretty sure I won’t be going to KC Tuesday as planned. I don’t have anything on my calendar next week until Saturday so will be good to stay home for a bit.

Kathy came home this morning to pick up a few things and to love on her cat. I told her to text me if she didn’t want to come for the next couple of days and I will feed Louis for her. No use risking her life doing something I can do easily.

Got the laundry room cleaned today. It was disgusting. Not sure why I let it go so long between cleanings but it is clean now. I even got under the dryer cleaned. For some reason there was some lint on the wall so I got that cleaned off and the top of the washer cleaned. Not sure why I expect clean clothes to come out of a dirty washer.

I have some potato soup cooking. Sure makes the house smell good. I had some potatoes that needed used up and some milk that was going out of date. Picked up some celery and onion at the grocery store this morning and turned it all into potato soup. Soup sounds good on a blizzard week. I’m sure I have enough to eat on for several days. It is hard to make a small batch of potato soup.

Got lots of paper thrown away from my file cabinet last night. I am down to about 15 files now. Just don’t need to save records like I did when I had the retreat center and AirBnB. Found some old cards, letters, etc. that I got rid of. At the first of the year, I like to throw away things that hold old energy in them. I feel it allows for new clean energy to come inside instead. Still have one more drawer to go through in the file cabinet. It holds old tax records and I need to decide what I have to keep and what I can throw away. I’ll have to look up the suggested record retention recommendations and go from there.

I took some time and checked out the requirements in order to deduct storm damage and you can only do it if the storm damage happened in a federally declared disaster area. Good to know but sad I can’t deduct some of my losses that insurance won’t cover. No use gathering all the information to take to my tax accountant.

No plans for the next couple of days other than staying inside where it is warm and dry. I only will venture out once a day to take care of the chickens. I remember one year I did the chores during a blizzard. It was hard to find my way down there and then back to the house. Maybe I can catch a break and find a sweet spot during the expected snow storm that is coming in.

Monday I do need to make about six phone calls and get some things scheduled. I need a hair cut but will wait until I know what the roads are like to schedule that. I won’t go to the Chiropractor until later in the week when the roads are clear again. I also need to schedule an oil change but won’t do that until I know when I can safely get there.

I got the back deck shoveled yesterday late afternoon. Water is still dripping off the roof but not as much as yesterday. I don’t like the water to turn to ice and then have a layer of ice that snow covers up. It is supposed to get above freezing today so am thinking most of the snow that is on the ground now will melt before the new stuff comes tomorrow. The chicken coop sure is muddy. The girls enjoyed rearranging the fresh straw I put down for them yesterday.

I will watch the Chiefs game soon. It takes me five minutes to find the darn channel it is on. I miss the days where you could tune to the channel you wanted and didn’t have to take ten steps to get there. Hope they play better than they have been. I don’t expect them to get very far in the playoffs this year.

Sitting in a good head space today. Feel like I am on a bit of a roller coaster lately but it seems to be slowing down. I know what triggered me and it is going to take a few days for things to become clear to me what the outcome will be. I did some fact finding last night which helped. I have a tendency to go to the worse case scenario in my head and that isn’t helpful.

Grateful for a nice day before the storm comes, grateful to have another room clean, and grateful for the potato soup that is cooking.

Had trouble finding sleep again last night. Finally took a second hot bath at 3:00 and was able to sleep after that. I got a text that woke me up at 7:00 but I was able to go back to sleep for a bit.

Having a much better day today compared to yesterday. I got triggered yesterday early and had trouble finding my grounding afterwards. I feel grounded today and have been able to do a few things.

Worked on tax prep for about an hour. I have some of the rental properties done. Need to get some paperwork from my business partner that manages the others and then I can finish that part of taxes up. Feels good to have a head start on those.

I always think about selling off the rental properties each year when I do taxes. I look at the return and wonder if I could do better putting my money somewhere else. What the return each year doesn’t show, is the increase in valve of the property. When you factor that in, it makes a difference in the return on investment.

About this time of year I consider selling this house too. I am struggling to keep it up, especially with all the hail damage stuff I continue to deal with. Not sure I see the end line of that yet. This house is way too big for two people and I could put the value of it to better use. Yet, I love living here and think I can do it for one more year. One of these years I won’t be able to say that but until I do, I guess I will stay here.

As I worked on my personal taxes I realized I didn’t have much medical stuff last year. I did have a second case of Covid but managed to get over that without needing much medical attention. No surgeries, etc. last year! Yay! I hope that trend continues for the foreseeable future. My thyroid medication is $75 a month out of pocket – and that is with pharmaceutical insurance. Yikes! Luckily the other stuff I take is cheap.

Not sure how income taxes work with the hail damage stuff. I am tracking what I have had to pay out and what insurance has covered so far. I don’t know if I get to deduct any of my losses or not. Probably not but I will take the numbers to my accountant in case.

I am always struck by how much insurance and taxes go up every year. How do people on fixed incomes afford to continue to stay in their houses? I wish there was an end in sight to the increases but I don’t see one. I hate to raise rent every year but with those two items increasing I almost have to if I want to continue to stay even.

It has only warmed up to 31 so far today but the snow is melting off the roof. There is a steady drip from the roof line. I don’t have guttering yet so the water drips off all along the roof line. I need to remember to go out and sweep off the water at sunset time so it doesn’t freeze overnight.

Need to take the girls some straw when I go down today. Their watering container leaked the other day and their floor in the coop is wet. Not a good day to clean out the coop so I will lay a thick layer of straw over what is in there. I also need to hang up the heat lamp as the forecast is calling for single digit highs later next week. When it gets that cold, I turn on a heat lamp for them to help keep their water container thawed. Today is about as nice as it is going to be for the next week so will take advantage and get those two things done.

I need to go through all my paper files and do a yearly purge of records I no longer need to keep. I quit saving so many things so it won’t take me too long to do now. That used to be a huge job when I kept the books for the stores. So grateful I no longer have that big of a task to do.

Kathy is housesitting for a friend for the next week or so. The house sure feels big and empty with her not here. Her cat and I are barely on speaking terms and he is going to have to deal with me. I’m sure he will be glad when Kathy comes back home to stay.

Got news that a dear friend’s husband made his transition this morning. I had helped them with end of life planning and am so grateful they had made decisions of what his wishes are many months ago. It makes this very difficult time a bit easier. Death is never easy but when you know what the departed one wanted, it does help make that part of it easier. It allows for the loved ones left behind to have to make fewer decisions at a very stressful time.

I am hosting a Five Wishes Workshop next Saturday at my house from 2:00 – 4:00. You will get a good start on documenting your final wishes. Cost is $25 and it is open to all. Come if you can. If that time doesn’t work for you, reach out and we will find a time that works for both of us.

Feel like I moved back up the ladder of consciousness today. Yesterday was a hard day. I rarely have those types of days anymore and am grateful it only lasted for one day.

Grateful the tax task has been started, grateful I was able to be of service to my friend, and grateful for the melting that is happening today.

Got a text from the window installers at 6:45 this morning asking if we had snow falling. It woke me up. I answered it was lightly snowing and we had less than an inch. No response.

The installers showed up a little before 9:00. The person that had texted had never read my response. Needless to say they were unable to install the remaining two windows as by 9:00 we had a couple inches of snow. They came inside and changed out the hardware on the windows. They had been installed with the wrong color. They also finished installing the handles so the windows can be opened and closed easier.

They unloaded the two remaining windows into the garage and will return another day when there is no snow to install them. Makes me wonder why he texted if he wasn’t going to take my word for it. Oh well, the round trip from Manhattan is on them and not me.

I had to pay them for most of the cost of the windows today. I am struggling to get an invoice from them that I can send to my insurance guy. It will get figured out – sooner or later.

Not sure if it is the snow or if I was worn out from yesterday but I am tired today. I didn’t sleep very well last night. I have taken two short naps in my chair today and still feel tired. I am just on this side of my last nerve so am grateful for a quiet day at home. One of those days that nothing feels easy for me.

I went to the website they gave me to register the windows and the link was broken. I had to call them and was able to do it over the phone. The guy that took the information seemed competent and I got an email confirmation that the windows are registered. Grateful that got done.

I have a list of people I need to call today. I need to schedule an oil change, get an appointment to balance my tires, call the heating company about Ellexia’s cold bedroom, check with my plumber about the booster pump and call the glass company about a broken window at Michelle’s house. Don’t have the energy to make any of those calls right now. Maybe later this afternoon or Monday I will be able to make them. If I run into a snag of any sort calling them, I feel like I might snap and it isn’t worth it. All can wait till a better day.

KU Research Program sent me about 10 surveys I had to answer. The last one I ran into a bit of struggle with as when I would answer one question, it would erase my answer from the question above it. I finally had to adjust my answers to get it to take the answer. I couldn’t answer all of them with the same rating. Oh well, it got done.

The snow is beautiful. We have gotten several inches of it. There has been no wind to blow it around. It looks heavy and wet. We need the moisture so am grateful for that. I will have to go down to take care of the chickens in a bit so will get to walk through it. We are still getting little flurries now and then. The forecast is calling for a wintery mix for the next several days. Next Monday night and into Tuesday we have high chances for lots more snow. Betting my trip to KC next Tuesday will get postponed.

One day soon I will need to get my second shingles shot scheduled. I want to make sure I have two or three free days afterwards in case I react like I did last time. I will wait to schedule it until I know for sure when I go back to KC. This visit is the one where they measure my exercise ability and I will need all the strength I have for that day.

No plans for the weekend. With this weather I am grateful I can stay tucked in at home and not get out. Next Wednesday looks like it will be clear but if we get lots of snow on Tuesday it may not be a good day to get out either. I’m grateful I am content to stay home for long periods of time.

Just one of those days where it is best that I keep myself in time-out and limit my interactions with others. I haven’t had a day like this is a long time. Guessing I wore myself out yesterday with all the brain testing and a second drive to KC in less than a week. I’m sure by tomorrow I will have my energy back and all will be well again.

Grateful for the beauty of the snow on the prairie, grateful for this quiet day at home, and grateful all is well!

Just got home from KC. I left this morning at 9:30 and got home a little before 6:00. It feels like it has been a long day. My brain is tired.

The first hour of the visit was going over the consent form. I think it was 20 pages long. Then the lady went over my medication list, Covid immunization record, and gave me a debit card loaded with $50 from today’s pay out. When I go back for the MRI and the physical testing part they will add more to it. I filled my car with gas and had lunch and spent $50 so broke even for today.

I then spent two hours with the lady that tested my brain. I did lots of different mental exercises such as hit the button of the color of the ink when a word popped up on the screen. It might say blue but if it is was in red ink I was to hit red. That took some focus and concentration. She did about 20 of games like that with me. The one I had the most trouble with was the one that had flat shapes that folded up into a thingy and you had to guess which thingy matched the flat shapes. Not my strength! She gave me a list of 12 things verbally that I had to recall afterwards. She repeated it twice to see if I could remember more of them and then 10 minutes later asked me again to recall the things. Then 20 minutes later she had a list of 24 things that I had to recall if they were on the original list or not.

My brain is tired tonight! I haven’t used it that much for a long time. There is a chance that I didn’t score high enough to proceed with the program. If so, they will call me by Monday to let me know. No news is good news and they don’t share the results with me otherwise. I will repeat this testing six months into the program and again at the end of the program.

Both ladies were easy to visit with and positive people to be around. I had a good conversation with her mental testing lady especially. She really put me at ease. She told me to offer myself grace throughout the process and if I mess up to not let it mess with me. My word for the year is Grace so that helped ease my anxiety. I know how to do Grace.

I was proud of myself for going with the flow and not getting worked up when I would miss one of the answers by hitting the wrong button. I never got stressed out or worked up and was able to stay above neutral on the consciousness scale even when I was doing the part that was hard for me. I’m tired tonight but not energy depleted.

I talked to them about my appointment for next week and what I can do if the weather is bad. We are going to visit Monday and make a decision but if it is bad they will reschedule the two appointments. Fingers crossed I can get safely to KC but good to have a backup plan just in case.

They told me they hope to start the actual exercise program the end of January or the first week of February. They have four other people from Emporia they are working up and we all should be done with the initial testing by the middle of January.

Afterwards I went to Chipotle for lunch and then made a quick stop at Costco for chicken tenders. They finally had some. Got them and got out of there. Parking was at a premium again although inside the store it didn’t feel as busy as it had been last week.

Drove home and stopped at Michelle’s for a hot minute to pick up something and then came home. I was chasing daylight as I thought I was going to have to do chickens but Kathy had taken care of them for me. I’m grateful I didn’t have to do them in the dark.

Got a message from the window people and they are coming tomorrow to install the last two windows. They wanted to get them in before the snow flies. It will be good to get that project wrapped up. I got a bill from them but am going to have to ask them to rewrite the bill if possible so I can submit it for final payment from the insurance company. I don’t like the way it was worded.

No plans until next Tuesday when I am to go back to KC. We shall see what Mr. Winter is going to do and what the weather is like this weekend and into next week. Sounds like we are in for a winter storm or two. Grateful the roads were dry and clear for today’s visit.

It will be good to go to bed tonight. I didn’t sleep much last night. I think I took too long of a nap yesterday and I couldn’t sleep in this morning. Hopefully I will sleep good tonight.

Grateful this part of the testing is over with, grateful I was able to have fun with it and stress over it, and grateful for a safe trip to and from KC.

Woke up to a winter wonderland outside. We had a heavy fog that covered everything with ice crystals. The sun broke through and it was absolutely beautiful. Grateful I didn’t have to drive in the thick fog.

By the time I went to Emporia late morning, the fog was starting to lift. It was heavy in the low places on the highway but not too bad. I was surprised how many trucks and cars didn’t have their headlights on.

Went through the car wash and then went to the Chiropractor. Stopped at the bank downtown to deposit a check and then stopped at the grocery store downtown to get a bag of ice. Came home after that.

I came home really tired so ate some lunch and took a long winter’s nap. I have to get up in the morning by 8:00 so hoping I can get to sleep tonight at a decent time. I have to be in KC at 11:30 so will leave a little after 9:30.

I can’t think of anything I need in KC so will come home after my appointment is over. I’ll probably stop for lunch somewhere and then drive home. The forecast for tomorrow looks good so should be good to go.

No plans for the weekend. I have to go back to KC Tuesday and am going to talk to them about that tomorrow. The forecast for Tuesday is calling for 5 – 6 inches of snow in KC that is to fall Monday night and into Tuesday. Not sure I want to drive in that. I’ll see what they say my options are.

My get up and go got up and left the station without me today. Haven’t had any motivation to do anything today. Yesterday was productive but not so much today.

I was sitting in my chair a while ago and the sun was shining in my eyes. I finally remembered I could lower the shades and presto – no sun in my face. I lowered them overnight to help keep the house warmer and had raised them all this morning. Nice to be able to block out the afternoon sun.

I had forgotten to lower the ones in my bedroom last night so the morning sun woke me up this morning. I may have to put a reminder on my phone so I lower the blinds before I go to bed.

It warmed up into the low 40’s today and it was a rare day without much wind. It was really nice walking down to take care of the chickens. I wish the whole winter could be like this but there is a cold front on the way and things will change over the weekend.

This is one of those days where at the end of it I wonder what in the world I did all day. Other than the trip to town and taking care of the chickens, I can’t think of a thing I have done. Just not in the mood today to do anything. Grateful I have the luxury to take a quiet day and “be”.

Grateful for the winter beauty this morning, grateful I didn’t have to drive in the worst of it, and grateful I can take a day and do nothing.